Mid 20's and can't get aroused?

Hello all, first post in this forum. I'm looking for some advice with an issue I've been having over the past couple months.

First off, some background info. I'm a healthy male in my mid-20's. I don't smoke, no excessive drinking, I exercise regularly, relatively low stress in life. Sounds great right?

Well, I'm having some issues sexually. I can't achieve and maintain a full erection. I have been dating a wonderful lady who I'm falling in love with and am very attracted to, but we can't be intimate because of my issues. It even happens when I'm alone. This hasn't happened before in my 9 years of sexual activity. It's really frustrating and it's driving me to wits end.

Could I be suffering from ED at this young of an age??? Any help/advice is greatly appreciated, cheers! :cheers2:

 

Well by the sounds of your life style i would guess... and that is what i am doing, is that it is a purely psychological issue. I'd imagine it probably would get more frustrating each time and only gets harder to get it up. Only thing i could tell you is to try and stop thinking about sex for awhile, like a couple of months. Dont even think about it... im sure eventually your body will want to remind you about sex... so thats my advice try and not even think about it for a while.

 

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go to a doctor ?

 

Try not to stress about it too much. This happened to me with I was about 21 for about 2 months. At the time I was dating this girl and slowly falling in love with her. She never pressured me, but always stood by me and told me we would work through it together. I was just focusing on it way too much, because one day she helped me break the curse and ever since I've been raging like the good ol days! But you could see a doctor, but try not to take supplements since they can do more damage than good.

Good luck! You'll get pass this small bump in the road, maybe even bring it up to her and see if she is willing to help you through it

 

Hmm dunno could be lots of things.
Maybe overexertion , poor diet.

Just a guess but it may well be psychological - sort of the desire to impress her.
Do u feel like you feel it could all disappear overnight with her?

TRy some cardio bursts of exercise too.

 

Have you tried viagra, cialis, or levitra? Are you taking any meds that could interfere with erections or blood flow?

 

Probably just a psychological issue (they say it has a mind of it's own but it knows when the big mind has a latent problem) but please do go to the doctor. You just never know - and ED is the first symptom in a myriad of male health problems. Even the healthy and young get conditions.

 

Stop masturbating and watching porn.

See if that helps.

Oh I know it sounds wildly drastic, but it's like between meal snacking.
Too much and you'll spoil your dinner

 

What do you do for money? People who work farms, or with plastic products or other chemicals will go impotent over time.

 

maybe your gay?

 

I'm going through the same problem right now too dude. Its all in your head, the more you think about it, the less likely it will be you will get a boner. Its your brain that tells your dick that its aroused so when you have all these thoughts in your head and your all worried about it. Its not gonna happen. Try to just relax, drink some beers, and just focus on her and not your dick.

 

Relax Man...

 

i feel alot better after having read this thread. i dealt with the same thing with my last girlfriend. it wasnt an issue of not being attracted to her.

 

I suspect I'll have erectile dysfunction soon, and it will be of a psychological nature. Lots of changes relating to emotional intimacy with someone.

 

Psycological or not -Viagra can help. Tell the Dr. - he'll prescribe them - They are pretty inocuous on most guys but the work great for most Give me a rise like I was 16 again.

 

improve your other skills... like using your mouth and hands... licking and poking are great skills to hone.

 

i even tried yohimbe when i was struggling, and that didnt even help. it was frustrating to say the least.

 

Get her to put it in her mouth! If that dosent work see a doctor, these no shame in wanting to function properly

 

I had a huuuuuge problem for a LOOOOONG time with my extremely IMPRESSIVE member which was not performing.. ahem to par. I knew my girlfriend wanted what I was once able to deliver but ... shit happens!
I see now later in life I was soo worried about trying to do it right, so worried deep deep on the inside that I did not know I was stressed out, and was further complicating our relationship... (which ended)

start caring... alot LESS. Very hard to do this is -yoda. One of the problems of love, its like your on some seriious shit

 

may not apply to you, but I did foreskin restoration and feel much more sexual now, the extra sensitivity helped a bit