i need to break up ..

with my tuesday therapist. nothing personal, but i don't feel she's helping me at all. she just pisses me off.

 

yeah, do it.

 

i didn't go last week. yesterday she asked me if everything was okay.. i lied and told her i was sick.

i don't know how to "break up" with her.

 

isn't that a theropist job it liss people off? have them hear what they don't wanna hear therefore causing the patient to stop and look at their life and confront situations and deal with them?

that's what mine always would try to do until i got pissed off enough to not bother going just to hear some old fucker tell me what i should with my life when i was only 15 at the time and didn't fucking have a clue about life...

bullshit fuckers, actually that's probably why i choose to get on here and ramble on with u folks

 

What does she do that pisses you off?

I've been to two therapist in my life. I only went once to each one and it was years apart from each other. I didnt go back to the first one, because she was really dumb and I felt like she wasnt paying attention.
The second one, offered me antidepressants after maybe 20 minutes of talking.

 

You're like Elaine.

 

maybe if you didn't lie to your therapist she might be able to help

 

i see 3 therapist.. and she's the one that just doesn't "get" me. i feel she's on some other peoples side.. and only wants to talk about their agenda and not whats buggin' me.

 

hit her with a bat, and say "i think you'll be out for a while, i need to find someone else. do you have any suggestions?"

 

I had to do that a few years ago. She acted like I was her boyfriend breaking up with her. But shit, if my GF wasn't giving me support I'd break up with her too. I was paying this woman to help me and she wasn't. Boog, if you took your bike to get it fixed and they didn't, you'd find a new bike shop.

Bag the ho.

 

that was easier than i thought it'd be... i'm free on tuesdays now!

 

good job! i broke up with mine a few months ago. it was a waste.

 

I'm probably the only person on earth that actually liked my therapist. She vehemently discouraged me from using anti-depressants, abandoned conventional psycho-therapy within a week, bitched about other therapists and encouraged me to rebel against society. She was the only human being I have ever met that had the capacity to hold back her initial judgments and opinions on everything I said, and when she needed to, she gave constructive useful advice that wasn't particularly bookish or conventional.

I don't know if she was that great, or the right person for me, but she changed my life.

 

Put your therapist on the sofa and sit in the chair and take down notes.

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I agree...

 

i wonder what i lied about....

 

Boog

c'mon, G

consult sahasrara

 

That makes three of us.

 

huh? i'm no good at meditating..


and seriously.. what did i lie about? because i didn't feel like telling her everything cus she runs to CPS and then CPS only hears the bad stuff? thats not lying.

 

What I mean is
Why do you need a therapist?
I really truly feel like you could be your own best therapist,
you don't even need words...
the answers are instant.