so I have a crazy wife. she leaves me all the time, runs off with the kids, stays in shelters, tries to get on welfare, ...now Im not the kind of person many are...do we all say that? Im trying to give my wife my house, my entire pay checks all but 100 a week for myself, ( I make about 1200 a week) I have three kids, my youngest I have only seen two weeks of her life as she left again when the baby was 2 weeks old, so since nov 15th I havnt seen her, she dropped off the kids for christmas...that was nice of her, we started talking a bit exchanging texes and all. Im continuing to offer everything I have to her...but she wants to be independant.... no no not get a job and suppiort herself independant, go on welfare and live in non profit houseing... we have a 5 bedroom house on an acre of property with a pnd a pool, detatched garage, my bus and my boat in the driveway... and she wants to be on welfare...?????? my daughter was going to the best school in niagra region ( the area which I live) way out in the country...no an inner city ghetto. she smokes pot while breast feeding, this whole drama now is becuase I called her on it. she doesnt cook for me or clean, or even sleep in the same bed. ....why am I with her? why am I trying to give her everything?.....I think Im addcited to my wife... does this make sence? I dont think im a sadist, but she makes my life and the life of our kids a living hell. she lies about me, she lies to me she steals money, when I ask her to keep recpites so we can write a budget Im bieng emotional abusing???????? kinda feels Im the one getting abused here. but still Im begging her to come home, does this make sence? I mean If I saw anyone else go threw this shit Id laugh at them......what the hell is wrong with me. Im not looking for advice, just curious if feeling drawn to an abusive destructive person is normal? i think I need some therapy
sounds like she's a force of habit . . .a bad habit. you and the kids deserve better, at least a wife who appreciates her husband instead of pushing him away constantly. drop a line if u need to chat . . i am also dealing with a jerk who happens to be a total drama queen, and never see things for what they are. i give love and get a bucket of poop. wtf?
it just doesnt make any sence. the more I give the more she kicks me, the more I go crawling ....wtf is right. Ive given up most of my friends because she didnt like them,. I was traveling in my bus for years with her and the kids, she wanted a house and stablity so I came back to canada with no shoes started working 6 days later, worked my ass off and bought a house....just so she can tear it down.... hey I live only 40 minutes north of you.
i'm sorry, but i think you'd be better off without her. if she wants to go live in government housing on welfare and shit let her. i'd say the best thing for you is to divorce her and fuckin' fight for your kids with all you got.
yeah I know that logical, but I just cant. as for fighting fo r the kids, I will! I want our family to work, it isnt, I want the best for the kids, and honestly I dont think its with her. although I work 70 hrs a week, my mom said shed move in and take care of the kids during the day, but would that be better for the kids? I mean they would be in a better spot, but without their mom? and I mean I have days when I think ok Im done I can do my own shit screw her....but that doesnt last long the next thing I know Im cryiong for this person.....I just cant make sence of it
yeah, i'm with seized by anger. why prolong your own unhappiness? being w/ out her may hurt a bit for a minute . . .but there is GOOD LOVE out there. there's a woman who willk love you with whole heart and never hurt u like she does/did (ok, at least on purpose) don't sell you and ur kids short don't forget that God is very good for advice...
im sure igf I do then ill be made out to be a bad guy, shes a good spinn doctor and Im not doing anything to let her spin anything on me.
That's a bummer. I'm guessing she was an angel the first year of marriage and then things went sour and she went all crazy bitch.
