hey im 30 and have never cum from oral. in fact ive never even felt close to cumming from oral. Ive had some amazing bjs ( and i LOVE oral more than anything) but would be nice to be able to cum from it. As anyone else had this problem ( btw im male....i know a lot of females cant cum from oral or have trouble but i know NO male who doesnt) Its frustrating as partners always assume i dont like it.
she? i am 30 years old and have had many many partners and have never cum once from it. I prefer it hard, harder the better but still nothing. LOngest anyone ever went was at the cinemas for the whole movie which was over 2 hours non stop and not even close.
Talk to her about what you like, and do it in a comfortable place, not in a theater. You need to be able to talk to her while it is happening. Have her try making her tongue mimic what you would make your fingers do if you were masturbating. Can you reach orgasm from a handjob? If so, then ask her to incorporate her fingers into the oral work as well.
by she? i meant that i have had many partners not just one in paticular and none have made me cum or get me close. Most women give up pretty quickly either wanting penetration or think they arent very good when i dont cum with 10 minutes
My beau was like that, he's been with 6 other women and only I have gotten him off. I'm just a determined bitch, but no your not alone.
Yeah, if it takes moar than fifteen minutes to get anywhere with dome, I say "Fuck that shit" and abandon ship.
i totally agree, if it takes too long it just seems to be more work than it's worth, so if the guy doesn't want blue balls we just fuck.
I feel bad for ya... And btw I take longer than 10 or 15 minutes to get my guy off... BUT that is my choice, I enjoy it so much I want it to last and last and last... and yea my jaw always hurts...hehe
There are techniques, but they apparently are known best in the gay community. If you are straight, you might ask a gay friend, I understand Oz has a few. (Grandpa just read my answer and called to add, 'any two bit whore' to my selection of advisers!) Then direct the 'her' in your life about what to do. I was able to be brought through heaven's door from the time I was 14 (precocious women I grew up with, and one dare from a buddy.) Gotta admit, though, from about 26 on, it has been more and more time consuming. No big deal here, a little oral action was always a means to the f*** end for me after about 18. We do get old fast, or at least I did in this regard. The climaxes are stronger though - a great trade off! :cheers2:
Its not especially uncommon for men not to be able to orgasam just by oral sex. Its basically just foreplay anyway. On another point a gay friend of mine once gave me tips on oral sex and I'm sorry it just freaked me the fuck out.
Yeah I know a guy who has that problem. You're not alone. Just don't keep doing the same thing if you know you don't get off on whatever the girl's doing. Ask her to try something different. Relax and enjoy. As long as you're enjoying it right?
