Help

Okay guys, here is my situation. I am a straight and married 33 year old guy that loves anal play, the bigger the dildo the better (to a certain point). I want to have anal sex with a gay man because I want to feel the real thing inside me. I have wanted to do this for awhile now but I have no idea what to do or how to go about trying to find someone that is clean and disease free to do this with. I would love for him to cum on my face after being in my ass also. I am in San Diego, CA and was just wondering if anyone knows of any single gay bars or how to go about making this fantasy happen. Thanks guys

 

Are you prepared to lose your wife (and kids if you have them) for this fantasy?

 

No. I thought of that and it isn't worth what I have now.

 

Good, cause I don't know many women who will stick around for a guy who cheats on them.

 

The desires and sexual fantasies that you have don't really align with what many believe is the definition of "straight".

I don't think you should cheat on your wife. Perhaps bring up the idea of your wife using a strap on.

 

Cheating on your wife is a bad idea.

Living your life sexually unfulfilled is probably an equally bad or an even worse idea.

In other words, you are between the rock and the hard place.

The decision is yours; yet in all the reality, it is only a matter of time, before you'll get to the point when your desire starts to dominate your thoughts and actions. Such as it is, it has the potential to ruin your matrimonial happiness anyway, while leaving you frustrated. Possibly, the worst of all the things to happen.

If you choose to go for it, stay safe and plan your actions very carefully. Giving it a try may clear the situation for you and that will give you an idea of where you want to go.

For my part, I believe (and I may be totally wrong), 'a guy has got to do, what he has got to do'.

 

That's what happens when a gay guy gets married to try to hide who he really is ... It will bite you in the ass sooner or later and you will hurt a lot of people along the way.. No offence but I would hate to sleep with someone who was too afraid to say what he is that he ended up marring and HAVING KIDS .. I would never be comfortable with that especially know that I slept with a guy after being "used" by a woman .. again no offense, this is just my opinion.