why do guys wanna give girls anal?

now you two definitely have a much better idea...but a penis up my bum?? i don't think so!!!

i agree with the two posters about men just wanting a tighter hole to fuck & it probably being porn influenced too...like fulll shaved pussies??? why do men find that sexy?? looks like a plucked chicken to me...i prefer closely shaved & trimmed...most women i know think if a man likes shaved pussies hes a perv!!

 

What a first post! Oh well I have taken 3 ladies anally who swore they would never do it, butI got them curious. After the first time, 2 of them wanted it every time!

 

I'm right there with ya. Had basically the same thing happen. Got them curious and then they begged for it.

 

So then what do they think if they like a full bush instead of shaved??? hummm

 

i don't know, i've grown to like anal, but it does hurt at first.

i also think the guy knows he's never stuck his dick in anything tighter and that just makes them want it more.

 

I think getting past the first part is the most important phase. Also, you can't wait months to do it again. It will be like the first time all over again. I think multiple stimulation helps too.
If a few guidelines are followed it is an enjoyable experience by both.

 

I've never done it before but I like the idea of it. More for stranger reasons than what most other guys like it for. Sure it's tighter which I'm sure feels great, but for me the biggest turn on would be knowing the fact that I'm sticking my penis inside of the hole of a girl (who are thought of as being "pure and clean") where vile, smelly, bacteria-ridden disgusting waste comes out. lol I guess it's that whole "it's forbidden" concept that really turns me on more than anything. Yeah I'm weird.

 

I give a girl anal because I like the smell and the domination type feeling I get from it, also filling her ass with my sperm feels good.

 

I guess it's like Dr Pepper, try it you might like it! After all, you've probably said at least one time in your life to someone "How will you know you won't like it if you haven't tried it?", right? Ladybrunette?!

My take on this little debate is that taking a girls anal virginity is exciting because it is not the 'norm' and is slightly forbidden, who isn't curious about whans in the box that says DO NOT OPEN!? What's more if a girl lets you take her up the butt, it must mean she really trusts and cares for you, iguess!

I have tried it only once with my wife but she wasn't keen, but strangely enough she loves getting fingered in the ass. But like I said, it's not for everyone...

 

Well I must say I quite enjoy it, but yes the first time I was a little sus about it all, but I guess he knew what he was doing because it didn't hurt anymore than a needle shot the whole time. My BF and I are not regulars to anal, but when he wants to I have never said no.

but yeah everyone to what they like and what their partners likes

 

So do you enjoy anal more than you enjoy regular sex? Also, are you able to have orgasms from anal sex, or only vaginal sex? I remember reading a long time ago that women couldn't have orgasms from anal sex, but since then I've seen comments from some women who say they always orgasm from anal sex, but hardly ever from regular sex. I guess it depends on the woman and what she likes.

 

Because a female is only good for three things if you take away anal sex there only good for two.


I kid I kid...

 

Yeah I do enjoy it, but saying it feels better than regular sex is pushing it a bit. Am i able to have an orgasm, have a few times, but is a lot easier if I am stimulated from the front. But yes I would say from my experience that it is possible for women to have an orgasm from Anal sex.

 

She is right. It is something different. It is a thrill to break the taboo. It also would turn me on to know that the woman actually craved it, and wasn't taking in the butt just for my pleasure.

In fact, I've only done it with a fuck buddy. I think that it would be a very intimate thing to do with a woman that I love. It would be like losing my virginity to her, in a way. It would be sentimental to me because I've wanted to make love that way, but havn't been able to yet.

It can also be pleasureable for the woman, aside from being a kinky thrill. There are many nerves around the anal opening. In fact, it is an erogenous zone.

I've licked girlfriends ass once, and it was naughty and intimate at the same time. It was a "first" for both of us, and it made us feel closer and more in love. It boosted our sex life for a couple of months.

 

I always, always fantasize about having anal again. The only person i've done it with had a small cock, and the guy im with now has a huge cock. I told him I wanted to do it, but im worried its going to hurt like hell. But anal sex gets me off, and sometimes when i masturbate with something in my butt its the best orgasm.. im confused if i should do it. This is not relavant lol.

 

jamkylie, it is very relevant. You are an example of a woman that enjoys having your ass penetrated. Men and woman both need to see examples like this in order to be more accepting sexuality and experimentation in general.

Also, this is an example for the original poster to read and see that one more woman enjoys receiving it --- in the ass.

I've read a variety of studies, and all of them generally fall in the same ball park, give or take a few percent. About 33% or 1 out of 3 women enjoy having anal sex. More have tried it than 33%, at least half of all women have tried it, especially in the last couple of generations.

Sex polls on the hip forums show about 66% of female members here do anal, or have tried it, I can't remember exactly.

About 2% of women prefer anal penetration to vaginal penetration.

jamkylie, if you want to take your current boyfriends "larger" cack in your butt, there is a way to be able to do it without pain. You need to work up to comfortably handling thicker objects in your butt. Start with something thin, then slowly and gradually work your way up to something the size of a cuccumber.

Don't work up to the goal of a cuccumber in one day, do it over weeks, or even months. Masturbate several times a week and put something in your butt. Midway, or towards the end of the session, but something that is just slightly thicker in your butt than what you started with that day.

Once in a while you will feel your butt spasm and tighten, and it may hurt. When that happens, you have two options. Option 1, hold the object in you, squeeze your butt muscles with the spasm and ride it out. It will last a few seconds, to a minute at the most, then it will pass and your butt will relax.

Option 2, pull the object out, and push it in again even more slowly. Do option 1 and ride out the spasm if you can. It doesn't happen often, but you will get past your current size limit if you can ride it out. It isn't that bad. Rub your clit and breath deep for the short time that it last, then you will have adjusted.

USE lots and lots of LUBE !

 

I have a few thoughts about anal sex. I think its mainly a male obsession, physiologically women don't have a prostate which is what makes it pleasurable for men to recieve anal sex. I've also noted that every time I've talked to men about anal sex online they always insist that they only do it at the request of women.

I think the desire is largely down to porn entering the mainstream in the last couple of decades, porn needs to push the envelope to compensate for a relativly narrow list of things it can depict hence why anal sex got more and more prominance (and why female performers were put under more pressure to do it)

One more thing the apparently approved method of anal sex, where the woman stretches her sphincter using her fingers or an object so as when it actually comes to the man penetrating her it doesn't hurt. Well that basically leaves the sphincter in a stretched state over a prolonged period which has all sorts of health implications later in life (nappies anyone?)

 

I think anal sex has become much more accepted with the invention of the internet, more so than the movies you would slap in the VCR. Many more people, of all ages, are exposed to it now and therefore the skyrocketing interest. Two or three decades ago, you might have 10 or 20% of the girls who were into it. Now, it's more like 40 or even 50%. It's definitely a big increase whatever the numbers are.

On the subject of girls having problems from repeated penetration, I have no idea. I'm not a girl so I don't know how they change physically. I can say that I have had casual anal sex with some of my g/f's and they didn't seem to have any issues. It's like anything else. It should be done in moderation. Any girl who is frequently and repeatedly subjecting herself to any type of anal penetration will probably develop sphincter contol issues eventually. However, the anus is designed to open and close, so I don't see a big problem for the girls who do it OCCASIONALLY. It certainly isn't desinged the way a vagina is, but it seems to hold it's own ok.

On the subject of female orgasm from anal sex, it seems to be a spilt. Some girls have great orgasms from it and some it does nothing for them. I have noticed, through my own experiences, is that the girls who play with their clitoris' during anal tend to have the best orgasms. I doubt there's many who just orgasm from anal penetration. I'm certainly no doctor or expert, so I just go off my own experiences.

 

I still have not tried it because I'm soooo scared but I know it would make my man sooo happy! He says that when he bends me over and I'm all spread open and sees my hole it he can't wait but I'm not sure!

 

Absolutely... there is no beating a sweet lil' female anus!!! ce magnifique..