So my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time today. After 8 months. We are going to be engaged soon! Anyway, I'm kindof a paranoid person. We used a condom. Actually, we used two. Not at the same time, of course!! We switched positions and we changed condoms. He didn't cum in the condom, and we were done making love before he even ejaculated. But I'm still worried I might be pregnant. I was a few days late before this, but now I'm freaking out that by some freak accident or wonder of god that I'm somehow pregnant. I'm glad we finally did it, and not remorseful at all- it was wonderful and just as awkward and adorable as we thought it was going to be. I just need some advice. Please? I don't really have anyone to ask about this.
You have no babies brewing inside of you. You're going to marry this guy and you haven't even had anal sex? Consider yourself divorced.
Lol! Well, as Matt always says, why fuck an anus when there is a perfectly good vagina right there.....
C'mon, Jadis. I'm a guy and even I know your not pregnant. No cum equals no pregnant. Having first time intercourse may have thrown your timing off. It might be time to consider BC now that your doing the naughty. Condoms tend to have failures from time to time. Your so not pregnant though, so quit sweating it.
Well, I took a pregnancy test today just to be sure. I'm not. *whew* I get so stupid about these things!!
aww hun its too soon to take a test, of course its negative lol you gotta wait at least til you miss a period or two weeks to take a test and it be accurate but you used condoms, you're good. i'm paranoid too and have only been having sex with my boyfriend for a little over a month. after not using protection our first time, i was soooo freaking out! got the morning after pill and everything was fine, but that two week wait was HORRIBLE. now i'm on birth control and we're shopping for condoms that dont make me itch (stupid latex allergies) good luck sis and go get yourself some birth control!
Oh... as an update... I started my period a couple hours after I took the pregnancy test. And then on Sunday I started birth control. yay!!! So I suppose I'm all good! Thanks, guys!
no one is ever ready for a baby, that's my belief, i know i was fucking scared when i got prego, but i had my kid and she's fucking awesome but i don't want no more! i do change my mind back and forth on that lil number but with this day and age we live in, i think i'm good and bringing anymore lil ones here.
I believe that too...your never ready till you have one and you have to be ready! some people wait till there 30's thinking they'll be more 'ready' or be able to live live better before having kids. I know after having my son I just felt such a zest for life. I wanted to do more things and create more things so I can bring him up in a world surrounded by lots of great things. Yey for kids!
