so these last couple weeks ive been seeing this girl. everythings been goin good. shes interested in me, im the same with her. after our first date i diddnt call her the next day and she called me that night, drunk, kinda upset thinking i wasnt interested. so its been goin good since then. so yesterday an old friend of mine tells me that this girl ive been seeing has a boyfriend and hes all pissed at me. i had no idea she had a boyfriend this entire time. obviously im gonna be pretty pissed off. this girl has been playing me the entire time. last night she calls me after she left a party(shes a little drunk) and shes wondering where i was since i wasnt at the party. so i asked her how long shes been dating this dude. she tells me they arent dating. she tells me that its more of an open relatoinship. no obligation to each other. she says if she wanted to be with him she would be dating him exclusivly. so this gets me a little confused. because i also know that the friend of mine who told me about the boyfriend does not like the girl ive been seeing and talks alot of shit about her. so i dont know which i should believe. if it is an open relationship, what does that mean shes looking for in me? a fuck buddy? or maybe shes confused and is interested in both of us? or maybe shes trying to make him jealous? or me jealous? aany advice on the situation?
From the door she denied you any knowledge of the other dude, fuck her if you like but trust her? Never!
You need to be asking her all these questions. Sounds like your buddy just doesn't like her (as you said). What's wrong with an open relationship? If you're cool with it, it's cool. If you're not, then move on, simple.
