id like a little bit of advice here.. ive only been with two people before and now im dating a frat boy.. and as you all could have guessed.. yah hes had his fair share, and its gonna be anyday now before we have sex, and im kinda scared that i wont be good... i wanna know what you guys like... i wanna make it exciting for him. can anyone tell me what i should try with him and how to go about it
Eh, if you're really that worried about it, just ask him what he really enjoys (after fooling around a fair bit, not just to start with). If he thinks that you're "not that good", then he's a jerk. Being "good" at being intimate with someone doesn't come from knowing all the moves, it comes from learning what really turns your partner on through experience.
from the films i have watched, with frat boys in ... i would (if i was a girl) pour beer over his head and say see you later. If he is a good guy, sit him down and have a bit of a chat... you can stop between 'bases' and have a conversation about what you both want. saying that this is true
My understanding of frat-culture leads me to the conclusion that, as long as you're willing to take it in every orifice and be wheeled home paralytic in a shopping trolley about 3 am, everything will be fine. Having said that, he'll probably have loads of hot mates who he'll share you round, so it's not all bad.
Why worry about how "good" you'll be? Just be natural, and let things take their own course. The most exiciting part of making love is learning together. Peace, and be safe.
nah I went out with a frat guy from another school a few times over the summer. He was really polite and nice and he did a lot of volunteer work and was really sweet. I found him to be a bit young mentally but I find that with all guys my age. Your first time together with someone new obviously isn't about pelasing their every whim it's more about getting to know each other in a sense.
this isn't true.. i've heard guys talk shit about girls before. For the most part, if you don't lie there like a sack of potatoes and try to have fun with him, it'll be fine there has been some advice already given on here, so i wont go more into it... use a condom, and if he really has been around the block, make sure he's been tested and is clean, and you too for that matter! good luck and have fun
yea most guys are worried about themselves first gurls second (atleast i think its like that) if ur so worried about it then tell him "take me how u want" (and get ur taser ready for anything u dont like)
Well..... lol, cant say i've never been dis-honest with women when it came to the bedroom life, but yea there was one girl i just had to tell her to stop givin me head once cuz it was by far the worse thing i have ever encountered, she didnt bite, she just wasnt good, went limp in her mouth, and shes like "is there something wrong?" and i went "well to be honest, you aint very good at this" she got pissed and walked out, oh well, truth hurts sometimes
def go for doggie y bc he gets to so the entry and ur vagina the whole time if he chooses to which will turn him on even more (or it does for me) but like somebody else had said if u really want it to be enjoyable for him ask him what he wants hint to what he does to you is summin he likes hisself
Please use protection if you decide to do it. It might not be popular with him, but think about your own safety. I hate to lecture, but I speak from experience.
personally, i hate frat guys. way too many bad experiences, only one of them sexual. I just find something wrong with a perpetual man whore who needs an organization to get friends. but just be comfortable, and be yourself. don't TRY to impress him, because if you worry too much about making HIM happy, you wont get any satisfaction out of it. If he actually cares about you [far stretch for a frat boy in my opinon] then he's not going to want you to TRY to impress him, and if not, then you don't want him anyway.
