he he, im sad coz im emo, yes emo-tional retard, maybe, me that is... coz my bf of 5 years left me and im lost and in a mess and id like to at least stay friends, but he doesnt answer my calls or stuff and i seem not to be able to learn my lesson so i keep trying to meet up and he refuses and it feels like original rejection every time, over and over again and i feel sad and mad and how do you pick up the pieces of your broken life if you are in a mess? paint my hair black and tune to emo fm?
Well, first of all, give the dude some time. Guys don't seem to bounce back into the just friends thing as well as chicks do, especially after a 5 year relationship ends. He needs space, respect that and if a friendship is meant to be, then it will be. Try to occupy yourself with friends or a hobby or...even coming here. This was my refuge after my last boyfriend broke up with me and shit, I haven't left yet, lol.
Moving on from this guy would automatically make you feel better... Move forward and start new, know that that part is over and it's time to begin a new chapter in life.. Don't base the value of life or you as a person on someone else... I am sure you are hurt by this breakup but don't let it rule you, don't slip into a phase where you feel as though this is the only one for you or if you don't have him your life is nothing because that is not true and will only make you feel worse, especially if you try to contact him or see him... I know you are sad right now, but don't let someone alter how you feel about you or life period.. Just start living, and start new... Good luck and hope you feel better soon...
well, the break up acctually happened a few months ago... and after the first shock and chaos, i thought im doing better, started doing things i havent been doing with him, started planning a new career and stuff, i thought i knew what i want to do with my life... but now that delusion is over i was just in a buzz trying to get better... now i feel it again, the stomac-ache of first few weeks of hell... i miss him i miss us and i dont have a clue about what i want or need, all my projects i've been trying to run past few months seem like a complete waste of time, possibly even money, just like a video-game for my brain... and yes, u r right, comming here helped me with my last break-up, ages ago... is life just a series of bad break-ups?