ashamed of myself.

patience
That is one of the many lessons taught by your dreads
Your dreads will go threw phases... like we have in our own life
Your dreads will mature and become their own but you need to be patient and let it happen
Wax will screw up your hair.... you will regret it

Just chill ... let your hair be

 

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your 16
the average 16 year old dont got the patience to live onbe more year
1/2 the 16 year olds i know its hard to get them to survive day to day because they simply dont have any patiencfe at all, everything must be immediate or it aint worth the effort
some do give up on life entirely andfd dont survive..and never get to realize what they may have missed out on
the lessons life may have taught them

dreads have lessonsd to teach too..patience being one of the biggest (at least in theyrwe youtrh)
i ask you now..if you have no patience4 to go another week now, how exactly will that be different later?
if dreads teach you patience and patience is what u lack most doesnt that mean you need to dread? and the long slow way at that?

survival in life requires a commitment to go ojn living 1 more day
success in dreading rewquires a commitment to not give up 1 more day..then one more and one more and so on
hundreds of days may go by beforee you feel you reached your goal, and dozens mjay go by looking like progress only to be set back again.. but theres always a steady movement uin the right direction
your frustrastge4d becuaese the backcombing came oiut
well backcombing isnt really a part of the dread process at all..untill recently it was never part of the dread process
but so many sites promiciung insta dreads made it a common practice
but it still doesnt do a whole lot to dread ya
only patience does
dont worry bout it falling out ..that happens to mosty especialy in short hair
give it time to grow and lock
and in the end you'll be rewarded
with patience..and beautiful locks that last