Need honest opinions from men

Any woman who's willing to cheat on her husband rather then leaving is lame.

 

show your husband this thread

the other guy is probably not flirting back 'cause he values his marriage

 

"He's very quiet, is always appropriate and never flirts. Despite this, I am certain he is attracted to me as well. We're both married."

His actions tell more about him than your certainty.

I think you're fooling yourself, he's probably not attracted to you. Yes, if asked "would you do her", he might say yes. But no, hes not attracted to you.

Why do you want to ruin this nice guy's marriage?

 

^ Cause she's a selfish person?

 

^ I thinks its because her vibrator is out of batteries.

 

This is mighty selfish. Do you not care about his poor wife?

They've been married long enough. No homewreckers needed.

And honestly, I can only imagine this is all in your head anyways... The bad outweighs the good in this case, but it is your life, make a choice...

 

Update: I chickened out. However, he approached me on Christmas Day and told me he knew it was wrong and it's driving him crazy and that he never expected these kinds of feelings toward someone new so strongly. etc etc etc
On my end: I didn't want to hurt him, but in the end I decided to tell him about the other man. I asked him to leave, because the house is in my name and I make more $$ but he would only move out of our bedroom. I guess we're roommates, we already were, but now it's official.

 

Now that you are separated / divorced, maybe you should consider finding yourself a single man through one of the many thousand internet dating sites.

 

she cant keep it in her pants she shouldnt be in a relationship

 

Sexual affairs in the work place are a good way to lose your job. If he has half a brain he will say, "Thank you but I am married."

 

Find some other guy to take care of your needs. Leave the married guy at work alone.

Try practicing a bit of Compassion and Warmheartedness toward your workmate and do not try to ruin his life.

 

such harshness.

OP, good for you for getting out of a relationship that wasn't working out for you. Keep in mind that there are around 3 billion men out there to choose from, so it shouldn't be too hard to find one who isn't already attached. all the best.

 

If I were in a relationship then I simply wouldn't care to connect with other women in any way. I may be surprised and it'd probably make me feel better about myself, but I don't lust after strangers, especially when I'm already trying to maintain and strengthen a bond with someone. If you're caught then there's potential of two families being totally destroyed and kid(s) who will become much more likely to have major problems for the rest of their lifetimes.

 

if you dont care about the moral or ethical reasoning, think about it from his kids point of view. they will never ever forgive their dad for it and will forever look at him like a scumbag. trust me, i know from experience. kids look at cheating fathers as the total scum of the earth. he has a duty to raise his kids and you would be interfering with that.

 

it's true. same with cheating moms.

 

If you try and persuade him to cheat on his wife, and he does, just promise us you'll take some responsibility for it.

 

Honest reaction? I'd refuse you and then let my boss know what went down just to cover my ass in case of harassment charges.

 

NO. if he cheats on his wife, it's still his fault. just as it's her fault for what she does.

 

this thread should be titled
once upon a slut
lulz

 

I hold a different opinion than most in regards to situations like this. I actually got part of this idea from a pastor a long time ago.

If someone in a marriage cheats, most of the time it is really both peoples fault. Something is lacking. (it could be attention, sex, intimacy, etc...) In this case msmischief, wants something from another man for whatever reason.

I don't judge that she needs something else from her partner as the bad part here. If I were lonely, and someone I found attractive was making me feel like they were going out of their way to pay attention to me, I don't know what I'd do.

Good luck to you.