1. Are you/have you ever been attracted to both men and women? 2. What are your own personal feelings about....Long term relationships, Sex, Past experience etc...? and if you havn't been attracted to both, what are your thoughts on it? I have always been attracted to both sexes. I told my mum, sisters and friends when i was 13. I am comfortable with who I am and have friends who are accepting of anything, and who are relaxed. I know people who have thought they are bisexual, but turn out to be gay, or straight. I don't like labels like 'gay' 'straight' 'bi'. this is because i see sexuality as something that flows and bends like a river, Sometimes i feel more attracted to men, other times women, and most of the time equally to both. i think i will like both sexes all of my life. But this is just my view, because this is all that i have known and who I am. I have had relationships and flings, now I am single and i can spend time with myself more. I want to know other people's opinions, your opinions. We are all different, so it is nice to hear what other people think.