So I have been dating this guy for 3 years now and we are still in love. We have both only had sex with each other, and met in highschool. Of course like anyone we both have our hangups but we still love each other very much, and get along greeat. It seems like a dream come true, but I dont know if there could be someone else out there, I mean I'm young ya know?? I kind of feel I'm missing out on meeting guys and and experiences, but I also dont want to give up what might be the best thing that could happen to me? Sooo should I take the risk? Or is this "highschool sweet heart" thing something to hold on to?? Also when did you know when it was the right person?
the grass is always greener, i would say definitely hold on to what you have. who cares about being "too young" too know, i had a dream in which a native american man told me to be grateful for what you have and to not look for more because we already have so much. you have something special, not everyone is that lucky, be with him and may you both always be happy blessings to you both. xxx
Hmmm, it sounds like your happy with him for the most part but something is missing. I assume your implying that your love life is boring and you're becoming curious? Is that the #1 issue that has you questioning what else and who else is out there? Just trying to get to the main root of what you're feeling. Or, is it a host of things that have you curious?
You kinda hit the nail on the head.. I mean after 3 years and not having any experience with other people we kind of hit a rut. Im kind of wild while he's not so its hard to get what we want out of it, and yeah I get curious about other people. To bad we cant get the experience and still have eachother.
do you take private messages? I think this topic needs a little back and forth. If you do, then send me one. I'll be willing to chat with you for a while.
Iv been with my guy for 6 years..we were highschool sweethearts as well and now were engaged. We did run into a rut but we worked it out together, trying new things, more communication, being spontaneous. We would do things and go places we never went before and it made us appreciate eachother and the fun we could have. You can gain more "experience" with someone your already comfortable with by communicating new things you want to do. Good luck either way*: )
I know exactly what you mean. I met my wife in highschool at the age of 17... we married two months ago. Let me tell you that there were many many ups and downs, we grew together, faced many challenges, broke up a few times, the longest was for a couple of months...after that one, which was when we finished college, it was like a new relationship, our time apart helped mature our relationship and now, we are still head over heels for each other, like crazy mad. The important thing is to let the relationship grow as each of you do as well. As long as you are open minded and are mutually loyal to each other, you can get to know other people... it is shaky ground I admit. The curiosity will always be there, just never lose sight of your love and don't be stupid. Good luck!
