Ex girlfriend it better at oral?! grrr

Me and my boyfriend recently had an argument and he blurted out that his ex girlfriend who he was with for 4 years was better at giving head than me and that i'd be more use sucking his big toe! its dented my ego somewhat obviously and now i feel like i can't give it to him anymore without thinking i'm not good enough. He's apologised and said that it was a spur of the moment comment but why did he have to bring her in to it and say that? I nearly finished with him but hes said sorry 100 times and said he didn't meant it.
So i guess what i'm asking is.....do guys see blowjobs as really that important?... and how can i get better?!!!

 

yup, very important. to get better, all you have to to is make super senusal love to his cock! and act like you are soo turned on while you suck himoff, oh and look up into his eyes a lot.

 

No, it's not that important, it's important that if you do it you do it very well. Despite popular opinion, there is such a thing as a bad blowjob. And a good blowjob. And an EXCEPTIONAL blowjob.

It's like anything else, if you want to stand out in the crowd, you have to STAND OUT IN THE CROWD!

And if he gets shitty because you won't do it at all, dump the prick.

 

Hey Crystal... is he any good at performing oral sex on you?

 

Well, surely if you're so "bad," he won't object to you practicing...and of course, his own reciprocation.
That was a pretty rotten thing of him to say, though - girls are usually very sensitive about that, and he should know better! It'd be like you telling him that he's got a small dick, or that he doesn't last long enough, or something else equally insulting. People are VERY touchy about sex, so to make such a comment was terribly rude of him! He could've done it much more tactfully, like suggesting what specific things he likes done instead of just ragging on you.
As far as getting better: Be enthusiastic. If there is one thing I know about guys, it's that they like getting head from a woman who likes her job. A girl who's bad with the technicalities of a blowjob can be gently taught, but one who just plain hates them will always be a bit of a downer as long as she looks like she's bored out of her mind or even disgusted while doing it. Look up at him, give him those doe eyes, and if you get overwhelmed or try to take too much, just pull back momentarily and kiss the tip of it or smile up at him. Anything to let him know that you're having a great time, not being forced into the worst chore ever.
Everything else, like where he likes to feel suction most, etc., you can just ask him about. For instance, after having a talk with my guy, I found out that he rarely likes having his head played with, and prefers the shaft only. Things like that you only find out either by listening carefully while doing it for his moans at particular spots, or by just having a conversation about it. I also found that for the hand part it works to watch him masturbate, to see what twists and twirls he likes best.
Best of luck to you.

 

You must ask yourself if you have been motivated and inspired to do important or give unimportant blow jobs in the past.

Then,if needed,enhance your skill level by study and practice.

 

Blowjobs are defintively THAT important!
I had a girlfriend very bad at BJ, it was so boring and frustrating I was about to quit just because of that!!
But my dick was the very 1st one she sucked, so I tried to be patient...

 

Bite it. Really hard.

It's crazy the things you'll say when your dick is between a set of teeth.

 

No he isn't and i told him that, he went mental surprise surprise haha lol

 

Geez, that's certainly not a very tactful way of telling someone what they're doing just isn't doing it!

If you still want to stay with this guy...and you want to know how to please him, just ask him. Try this or that and then ask him if he likes it, all sexy like, looks up into his eyes. Or, have him tell you what he'd like you to do.

For the record, my husband had never had an orgasm through oral sex until me, and I hadn't done oral with anyone but him, so I was totally inexperienced. The first few times I did it, he didn't have an orgasm, but enjoyed it anyhow (I mean, of course, what's not to enjoy about some kissing attention there?!) But then, I point blank started asking him what might make it feel even better during. Started doing that, and well, I ended up with a technique that never fails with him.

 

I really couldn't care less if a guy loves my bj or not.
As far as I know they do, but if they didn't...then I simply wouldn't do it.
A guy should appreciate you doing it at all, and if he has a problem he should speak up...if he's just going to say someone else is better, go tell him to
"stick a cock in his mouth and shut his face."

It seems like guys care about sex way too much...

 

Just dont give him oral for a few weeks. Or just dump the prick, thats what i would do lol

 

he should've been more tactful...even in the heat of the moment. It says a lot about his level of maturity.

If you really want to work on the relationship, work together to learn what pleases both of you the most.

 

Meh he's a lucky bastard, my g/f hardly gives me a blowjob, i always eat her out, i love it, but she doesn't seem to return the favour that much.

 

Take him up on what he says, literally & only agree to give his Big Toe blow jobs. I bet he'll soon change his tune then (unless he has a foot fetish, of course).

 

its that important to me, I dated a girl who acted like I owed her the world if she gave me a bj which was not nearly often enough, and coincidentally my x at the time gave amazing head on demand. I grew to love it and associated it with a girls desire to please me (both physically and mentally) good head is great, bad head can get better. But its still head one needs. Blowjobs are very important.