why are men so confusing?

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by ebi120789, Jan 18, 2009.

  1. ebi120789

    ebi120789 Member

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    what are the signs that a man is really into a woman?? :confused:
     
  2. mmg

    mmg fish out of water

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    boner?
     
  3. farmout

    farmout All who wander arent lost Lifetime Supporter

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    Most men are afraid to show real emotions, its taught to us from childhood on up that we are supposed to be strong silent all that crap.
    Watch how your sweetie treats his Mother, that will tell you alot about the guy.
    Most guys think with the wrong head as well...:)
    Lotsa luck to you.... Farmout :)
     
  4. Archemetis

    Archemetis Senior Member

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    depends on the guy, for many a sure sign is awkward nervousness, lol. really if he seems open he's probably into you.
     
  5. ebi120789

    ebi120789 Member

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    yea cus he is realy open..he really dont care who sees us together and introduces me to his friends and stuff and he tells me about everything..so yeah i hope he is into me lol
     
  6. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Talk to him about it.
     
  7. Quoth the Raven

    Quoth the Raven RaveIan

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    This. Men generally suck at picking up subtle clues, which is why we seem confusing.

    Openness is the best strategy, seriously.
     
  8. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    dave's totally hopeless at the picking up on signals thing. i think most men are. i can't tell you how many times i've poked a guy friend in the ribs and tell him "HELLOOOO! TAP THAT!" yeah, we pretty much have to take over this thing, ladies. the poor guys are terrified.
     
  9. GoodVibes1

    GoodVibes1 Member

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    we're not terrified just clueless at times.
     
  10. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    just ask us.....and then tell us what to say
     
  11. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    bullshit
     
  12. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    well, it works for me. dave's relationship with the women in his life was VERY indicative of how we get along.
     
  13. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    KC swears up and down that various women are into me and I never get it. To me, they are just being nice and civil. KC thinks im very dense when it comes to that sorta thing.
     
  14. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    it's the nipples and body language.
     
  15. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    I just want to add that some men don't want to initiate single-handedly. I know when a girl is into me (I can pick up "subtle" signs), but if she expects me to do all the work - I walk away.

    Also, if a girl is too forward: I assume she's cockteasing (or that she's fat, which she usually is).
     
  16. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    you're farther ahead than I am. I never was good at pickin up chicks.
     
  17. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    do u have a wife now?
     
  18. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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  19. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Fuck, my life has consisted of women coming near me and starting to touch their hair.

    Fucking CREEPY. I never understood why they couldn't smile and say, "Hi." But no, they had to start acting bored and touching their hair and shit: and I had to relocate.
     
  20. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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