why are men so confusing?

what are the signs that a man is really into a woman??

 

boner?

 

Most men are afraid to show real emotions, its taught to us from childhood on up that we are supposed to be strong silent all that crap.
Watch how your sweetie treats his Mother, that will tell you alot about the guy.
Most guys think with the wrong head as well...
Lotsa luck to you.... Farmout

 

depends on the guy, for many a sure sign is awkward nervousness, lol. really if he seems open he's probably into you.

 

yea cus he is realy open..he really dont care who sees us together and introduces me to his friends and stuff and he tells me about everything..so yeah i hope he is into me lol

 

Talk to him about it.

 

This. Men generally suck at picking up subtle clues, which is why we seem confusing.

Openness is the best strategy, seriously.

 

dave's totally hopeless at the picking up on signals thing. i think most men are. i can't tell you how many times i've poked a guy friend in the ribs and tell him "HELLOOOO! TAP THAT!" yeah, we pretty much have to take over this thing, ladies. the poor guys are terrified.

 

we're not terrified just clueless at times.

 

just ask us.....and then tell us what to say

 

bullshit

 

well, it works for me. dave's relationship with the women in his life was VERY indicative of how we get along.

 

KC swears up and down that various women are into me and I never get it. To me, they are just being nice and civil. KC thinks im very dense when it comes to that sorta thing.

 

it's the nipples and body language.

 

I just want to add that some men don't want to initiate single-handedly. I know when a girl is into me (I can pick up "subtle" signs), but if she expects me to do all the work - I walk away.

Also, if a girl is too forward: I assume she's cockteasing (or that she's fat, which she usually is).

 

you're farther ahead than I am. I never was good at pickin up chicks.

 

do u have a wife now?

 

yup

 

Fuck, my life has consisted of women coming near me and starting to touch their hair.

Fucking CREEPY. I never understood why they couldn't smile and say, "Hi." But no, they had to start acting bored and touching their hair and shit: and I had to relocate.

 

ugh