A good husband/boyfriend would....

Is who he is and I love him for that, while I am who I am and he loves me for that

I dont know, I think John is a great husband, except when he's bad haha, and I love a lot of the things he does, but the way I see it it's also who he is.
Of course there has been times that I've asked certain things from him, but I think this has very little to do with being a good husband or boyfriend, it was just me expressing what I need. I guess listening and understanding, is a good quality for a guy to have, but I kinda see it as a good quality for PEOPLE to have

I dont think I expect him to be any different than I am, by this I dont mean that I want him to be just like I am, but that I understand that like me, there's a combination of good and bad that makes us into who we are and we accept the whole package.

 

letting your partner be who they are (who you fell in love with to begin with) is very very important. I would not change anything about my wife. Love the hell outta that woman.

 

I think sometimes people confuse growing together with changing each other.

 

yup, big mistake. KC and i are together 10 years and only one fight. Neither of us has felt the need to change one another. I get pissy about a few things here and there but she is perfect!! I've no desire to change a thing.

 

would change himself for the better to make his self and you happy

 

good point. it's good to grow, for sure.

 

have some real depth of empathy for other people

 

A good husband would be loving but firm. A good husband protect me and would consider my needs before his own. He would be a good listener. He would make me feel like the most loved girl in the room. He would be responsible both financially and otherwise. He would stand his ground. He would teach me things and laugh with me. He would be my best friend, my lover, and a good piece of meat with a handle.

 

would never undermined you even though you're certified in that area

 

sounds like that one is near and dear to you.

 

no he decided to make me cry and tell me that dont come to him even if im going out with a dick.

 

Gawd, Man!! ouch

 

yeah i seriously think hes bi polar, but i got 2 men in line. i dont need him

 

oh, to be young and single. hehe

 

awesome. dave was distantly in the lead ahead of half the town of durango.

 

I won, too!!!! Im a badass