how long does sex usually last for you? i usually have about an half an hour of foreplay followed by and hour of sex then a 20 minute cool down. i'm not sure if this is the average, or if it is too short. i asked this one girl i was with, but much to my suprise she was a mute. could you tell me if i should draw out my performance, and if so, how do i do it. does it start with my masturbation, or should i develop calluses on my penis?
That sounds good, but its all relative. Some chicks like it longer, some want it instantly. Use what feels good to you and then what is best for her. I see nothing wrong with drawn out performances.
Depends. Quickies are suppose to be like 2-3 minutes apparently but even if I'm going as fast as I bloody can it usually takes me at least 7 or so minutes. What I call casual sex, slow with oral play mixed in can last about an hour, more so, but then again who's counting. Then there's the position factor, if you're sitting and she's on top, if you're lying and she's on top, if she's facing you or away ( for me it matters ), if it's on the side I tend to come quicker. I can give you a ballpark, if there's no foreplay just straight sex with moderate speed, her lying face down on the bed, legs spread and me on my knees ( instead of lying down ) I say about 15-20 minutes. Now that's when I'm sober in the afternoon, those 2 a.ms after a few litres of beers, I dunno, seems longer.
if you're concerned about her perspective of your performance, you and her should discuss everything sexual together. (to me sexual discussions are so fun.) then you'll have a good idea of exactly what she wants and how she wants it, and she'll know what you want and so on and so forth.
thanks for all of the advice. one last question for everyone, based on all of your experiences of course: what position is good for casual sex and which position is good for a quickie?
i would say doggy style for quickies, and missionary for casual. but switching up the positions for casual sex is fun.
5 min to look around play ground 5 min to pay off parent to let me bang there kid 5 min sex. rest of day looking over my shoudler for dateline lol!!!
An hour of sex? Like straight up humping? I love sex more than anybody I know, but after half an hour I get really sore and at that point I've finished so many times that its really sensitive on top of that. I'm happy with however long it lasts. Sometimes its 5 minutes, sometimes its 45. If you're good it shouldn't matter how long you last as long as you leave her satisfied.
I think there should be a ''Time Limit" Cuz then your really not paying attention on how Satisfied You leaving your partner... I believe It's Quality over Quantity
we can go for an hour sometimes longer. The only thing that matters is that the both of you are satisfied! the longer he holds out the better the explosion!
It varies a lot, sometimes we're at it for hours and then other times it takes ten minutes. Always just as good.
