So my girlfriend of 6 months, all of a sudden her ex booty call keeps calling her late at night while she's with me. she just ignores it. she tells me that he called once before during noon but she didn't answer. I told her next time he calls I'm gonna answer it, and tell him to quit calling, but she doesn't want me to. cause she's afraid it will cause trouble. She tells me she should just answer and tell him stop calling herself or answer to see what he wants? But the thing is she's too nice and she probably won't be able to tell him off. What is the best thing to do in this situation?
there's a reason she's not telling him to leave her alone. I doubt it's because she's too nice. I've been in her shoes before. If she's not being frank with him and letting him know she has a boyfriend and he needs to leave her alone, then it's probably because she likes the idea of him. She may not be sleeping with him, but she might like the attention. Just ask her if she's getting enough attention from you, and if she says yes, then ask her why she wont just tell him to kick rocks. She's either not getting enough of your attention, or she still likes him. Just my opinion.
Get his number off of her phone. Access internet with phone number in hand, get his address. Kill him with fire.
I asked her if she likes the attention and she said she doesn't like it from him. He ended up calling her again at like 4 in the morning and she immediately canceled the call and he texted her "why don't you call me anymore?" and I told her to just tell him to delete your number but she just texted him back saying "Maybe you shouldn't call me" so I figure this would do it. The next day (while I wasn't there) he called again, she told me this when she saw me again and I told her to text him "Stop fucking calling me" and she did. and then he ended up texting her back "Im sorry I was really drunk I'll delete your number" So hopefully this is the last of that!
he wouldnt call if knew absolutely for sure that she is not gonna bang him again[someday]she is obviously keepin him on the back burner...sorry dude....but hey..that reminds me..i have to call my ex
thats why i made her txt him to stop calling. and she did. he texted her back saying that he was gonna delete her number.