I have become very close with my girlfriend, we have been together for about 2 months. We decided we want to have sex, and we feel very comfortable with each other. But I have a problem. As soon as I go to put on a condom I start to lose my erection, it just feels so unnatural and just doesn't feel right. What do you guys suggest I do? I have heard of female condoms and of course the pill but I dont know if she would go for this.
Really!? I could never loose mine whatever im doing if theirs a naked girl in front of me lol. Try masturbating at home with it on for a few days. But I guess maybe I know what you mean...the first time I put one on though it was a little uncomfortable....but serisouly just man up!
Well actually, I (as a girl) have a similar problem. Whole excitement goes away when I see a condom. :tongue: Anyway, classic phrase: Talk to her. Start talking about it and maybe you'll find out she's not a condom-fan either and prefers the pills.
pills are the way to go, but just make sure about the whole cleanly thing though however if u guys are both vigins or something like that then it will be cool.
Try using the correct size of Condom too. This makes a big difference for a lot of guys. To find out your condom size you have to measure the girth of your penis at the widest point, when you are erect. If it is 12cm or below you should be looking at a Small If it is 13-14cm you should be using a Medium If it is 15cm or above, you should be buying a Large Now, for those of you guys stressing, because you've come up as small - don't worry - first off, it doesn't mean you have a small penis.....and also it won't be printed on the inside wrappers, so no-one need know (if that is what you are worrying about!) and secondly - always remember...it isn't the size of the boat, it's the motion on the ocean, that counts!
i think it's funny that lot's of guy's buy the magnums~what for? lol theyt are SOOO worried about size~gosh~
Fuck condoms. Unless yr railin' a skanky ass ho or don't understand how to pull out, I don't see the need. here comes the shitstorm... "OMGZ YOU CAN GET PREGNANT FROM PRECUM!!1!1oneone!11" If yr worried, get the **** on the pill. It's not hard; I did it when I was fifteen.
I agree, get her on the pill. If you guys really have got close then it shouldn't be a hard issue to bring up. I've been on the pill since I was 14
well i have some serious erectile dysfunction often because of drug use, so i recommend not sweating it man. its a factor of how 'relaxed' you are most of the time. if its a nervous thing that will go away, if its really the condom find some other form of bc i suggest the spermicide lol.
Try putting some lube inside the condom. be careful some lube can make the condom break. It worked for me
Maybe you can make putting the condom on part of your sex play. Let her be the one to put it on you, but not in a way that its a big hurry. Maybe she can take her time and do it in a totally sensual way. You know, she can start going down on you. She'll start by putting your penis in her mouth and twirling her tongue around a bit. Then she will take you out of her mouth and slowly go down, licking your penis until she reaches your balls. Then she will put just one of them in her mouth and gently suck on it until you start to moan. Just lay back, close your eyes and relax. Just let your senses take over, and give in enough to totally block out everything except for the feel of your cock in her mouth. And then when it looks like you might start to be reaching the point of no return, she will head back up to the tip of your penis. By that point you will be so aroused that you will either throw the condom under the bed or you will stay hard long enough for it to stay on! Set the stage for the evening with the right music, incense and anything else that turns you on. Could be a moment you'll never forget!
Turn on a light, and ask her to put it on you. I guarantee you won't lose your erection then. Some girls can put one on with their mouths only, but this takes some practice. Birth control pills seem to be a lot less popular now than a few years ago, but I don't know exactly why. I know that they don't protect against diseases, but they make periods shorter, lighter, and more predictable. Still a great option for monogamy. I'm glad that my lady prefers the pill. Sex is more personal when you have that exchange of body fluids. Can't beat it.
Girth? I think you meant length. A 12cm-wide dick is above average for an elephant. Width (thickness) is important, though. A condom that doesn't fit tight enough can slide off at the worst possible time.
