It seems like i face the same reoccurring theme during sex. whenever my partner reaches orgasm she always wants me to follow along immediately after, problem is most of the time she seems to get off in less than 5 min, right after she blantly shakes with pleasure she wants me to go. personally i want sex to last more than 5 min, i guess im not too fond of the quickie all the time. hah. anyways do you think its selfish of me to have that sort of perception? im all about giving pleasure but why make the act so quick and undignified.. i dont know. youd think shed let me keep going and give her multiples? ive brought this up too. ill be honest tho, sometimes the quickest shags are the best. what do you guys think? troll me if ud like just give input.
Im a boy and I think a orgasm is over rated,, I really dont even feel that much when I cum. It like Ok its over thats about all.. much more erotic sensation it the tip of my dick, I can quiver and tremble. Cumming just ends thats.. Good tihing dont take me long to get it back..
i don't see why she's not into mutiples. sex should be a lasting thing, imo. nor do i see why she thinks u have to cum right after she does, like it's has to be an in sync kinda thing. but then again all women are differant. i do enjoy a long hard fuck with many orgasms, i hear there's some guys that can control when they cum just to make sure the woman is satisfied.
She's just a boring fuck is all! And you want to write a topic saying "how do I get my girl to be more adventurous in bed" but you chose the safe route! Well, to stay on said "safe route", I would definitely take as long as I wanted. It's not all about her and it's very selfish for her to think that it is. And you need to put your foot down about it, unless you man up and tell her she needs to at least consider trying to last longer, then nothing will change and you are going to get sick and tired of fucking a boring chick! Usually this conversation goes the other way (man being quickest to cum), and with the risk of seeming insensitive to her feelings, she needs to work on her performance level!
I think the selfish lay scenario is a possibility, but I also see two others. 1. She gets very sensitive after orgasming. It can be uncomfortable for some women to continue. 2. She is faking the O, and just want to get you off. I'm not saying this is the case, but "blatantly shaking with pleasure" is a good description of a faker. Or, she could just be very reactive to stimulation. Either way, I'd recommend building up the foreplay for any of the scenarios. Don't let her just get off and go to bed. If she is a selfish lay, the foreplay will get you some of the extended pleasure you want before she orgasms. if she gets sensitive, you'll be able to be intimate longer, and if she's faking, you might give her a real one. PEace
