Men: Your feeling on bisexual women

OK, gonna tell you why I think you are wrong. You are making a value judgement about other ppl's sexuality based on nothing more than your limited experience.

I am bi - or at least I was for most of my really sexually active life. Now I seem to gravitate toward men more so I do debate if I am now more gay.

But, how does one account for an 18-year relationship with one woman with screaming orgasmic sex? Or the 25 or more women that I had great sex with over a lifetime? Was I gay while enjoying sex with women?

I have a gay friend who also used the term "confused" for me. That is such a put down. It is just as ignorant as the straight bigots who, because they cannot countenance two men enjoying each other sexually, say that homosexuality is a disgusting perversion. I never considered myself confused. If it feels good do it and it doesn't matter who is making me feel good.

The confused ppl are those who cannot conceive of something beyond their own limitations.

My wife was straight but I have had relations with bi women. One, in fact I thought was lesbian until we found ourselves in bed together. (Yeah, I'm still anticipating that I was used and that there is a now 29-year-old person who will contact me and say "dad?") Sexuality is (as Kinsey pointed out) on a bell curve, with very few who are totally str8 or gay. Most fall into some degree of bisexuality on the bell. From my experience I find that to be true.

 

I am sometimes surprised all women aren't a bit gay. Women are assuredly, the more attractive sex. There is a sunsuality about women two together that I find sexy in a voyeristic way.

 

I have nothing against gays or bi's, but in no way do I support it.

 

I hate to be so contentious, but that too is a value judgment.

I love the sight of gorgeous young women, but equally or more so, I am attracted to gorgeous young men.

That is one reason I question my bisexuality as opposed to gay, because put side by side, the most beautiful Aphrodite and the the most beautiful Adonis, I probably would have a more visceral lust response for Adonis.

 

with my hands

 

i don`t mind bi-women as long as it isn`t thrown in my face. that`s happened to me way too many times. & yes i agree that bi is the same thing as gay. sorry, but i`m monogamist heterosexual, no bloody a b c,or d. life has enough complications without silly stuff like this. either you do or ya don`t, shit or get off the pot.

 

what she said~

 

i like when it`s kept that simple

 

Yes, simple is nice.

Unfortunately, one size don't fit all.

 

Lesbian porn is hot, real lesbians are not. Sad but true.

 

Hi,
My wife is bi. She enjoys a woman, but they have to be a certain type. One good thing is that we both check out women when we are out, but I would not do anything with another woman, but I will watch my wife have fun with one!