ok, so i am a virgin, but i know a lot about sex and the like....and i have this friend who wants to have a 3some with me and my best friend. well, we're both up for it and we are both virgins.... so do you guys think its wise to loose my virginity to a 3 some...or should i wait for it to be more intimate?
nooooooo your first time is special-as is anytime you have sex. You need really think whether or not your actions are going to promote your feeling of self worth or are going to be destructive. In my opinion three somes are not intimate and sex is all about intimacy. I think you would feel like crap afterwards to be honest.
Geez, no offense, but how old are you? The reason I ask is that your question seems a bit juvenile. Why on earth would you want your first time to be in a threesome? The fact that you're even asking such a question is just mind-boggling to me. It shouldn't matter what everyone else thinks, the only thing that matters should be that YOU think. I know I haven't had much experience, I mean, I've only been with one person and I'm married to him, but to take sex so lightly as to get involved in a threesome for your first time just seems crazy. I think you need a little one-on-one with someone, preferably someone who truly cares about you, respects you, loves you, and doesn't just want sex. But, that's not my choice to make, and what I say is only a matter of my particular opinion, so... Peace, from the old-fashioned mommy of 3 getting off her soapbox
do not let your first time be a threesome find some poor sap to break you in first .....THEN let your second time be a threesome
I'm with missfontella...haha.... Don't get a poor sap, though. Get some rich dumbass to take you out and everything, then rob him blind while he's sleeping. Just take cash, though, because they can trace the credit cards.
You and your best friend are both virgins. (No surprise there.) There is a guy who wants a 3-some with the two of you. (No surprise there.) You are both up for it. (BIG SURPRISE!) I have two questions. Is this a way for you and your friend to explore your (possible) homosexuality? Is this a way for you to have someone you trust present while you go through the slightly scarry experience of loosing your virginity?
*reminder bring credit cards* yea either one poor sad rich guy just aslong as its one guy first doin 2 ppl gets a lil complicated i have a hard time as is but im a guy so i cant tell ya
are you a virgin because you may possibly be interested in the other sex? I would find this out first before engaging in any sexual activity. I would also advise you to really think about this... would you ask the advice of people if you weren't uncomfortable with this? when the time is right you won't feel that you need any advice on the situation. I'm younger than you so can take this with as many grains of salt as you wish but I would hate to see someone regret this if I didn't put my 2 cents in. That's what this is for right??? Take care of yourself and listen to your heart!!
I regret how I lost my virginity and it was with a friend . If I were you I would until someone really special comes around or even marriage . I think getting married as a virgin would be the coolest thing ever . Just because that would mean I would have had to love that person so much in advance I never choose to sleep with anyone else.
Yes it's unwise. It's foolish. You should decline. Particularly if this would be your first time having sex. It sounds like you're on the verge of capitulating your virginity to a guy who you don't love, who is just trying to manipulate you and your best friend for a sexual conquest. What makes him deserve to have both of you? -Jeffrey
I agree with all of the above who prevent you from doing this. However I will base my opinion in a different way. A girl's first time requires care and attention by the guy for physical reasons... If I were in a 3some I'd be like a berserker in a blood rage. You wouldn't want to be with me in that 3some at your first time...
