Have you ever encouraged a gay person to experiment with heterosexual sex?

Just wondering. A lot of us will have hinted that straight guys who are questioning their sexuality should experiment. Would you do the same for a gay guy?

 

I would defintiley encourage someone who's questioning their sexuality to experiment, be it a straight guy contemplating cock, or a gay guy wondering about vagina.

To be honest, as I think about ever experimenting with a girl, I feel the same way I did when I first thought about kissing a guy, but I enjoyed it and now identify as gay...does that mean I should get over that feeling and try things with girls again??? haha Dun dun dun!

 

Oh, we all would, but have you?

 

Well, you asked if we would in your OP, not whether we have done it before or not. If that was your intended question, then no, I haven't ever told someone to, because I haven't met a gay guy before who's thought about having sex with a girl. But if I had a gay friend who was curious, then I would definitley encourage them to experiment. Why wouldn't I? I'm the last person to tell someone that their sexuality is written in stone or can never be tinkered or explored.
There are a couple striaght guys I've met who have expressed interest in experimentation and I told them to go for it.
I dont really get the point of this post.

 

Few people need any encouragement to do what is societally endorsed and seen as 'normal' and 'natural'. This explains the relative lack of requests for such 'encouragements' as described in the OP.

Nope, so far, none of my gay friends have expressed any interest in getting sexual with the opposite sex.

If anyone did, AND asked for my advice, encouragement, or whatever, I'd certainly encourage him to experiment, within reason, granting that he stays safe.

 

Parts of Gay and Lesbian come from being oversexualised by either gender early on.

So the familiarity breeds contempt rules comes into play, or any attempt for an encounter with the opposite sex is very unlikely as it may be a reminder of some ickiness in 3rd grade etc

So any attempt at the opposite sex may be near impossible

Similar with straight people, the guy hazed or humiliated by alpha males in early high school may never be tempted as any thought of it leads back to the change rooms after phys ed back in the day.

Plus with both gay and straight there are people closer to asexual, so never really have much of an urge for their team let alone the opposing one.

Have I ever encouraged a gay guy to try it with a girl?, no, you only ever see bi, bi early on then gay or always gay, dont think I've ever heard of a gay guy going to or back to straight, its the one thing that does seem to be a definate

 

I haven't no, but someone has done it for me, which is how I discovered I was pansexual

 

I'm a straight guy, but Ive helped convert two lesbians to heterosexuality and Ive helped turn two straight girls to lesbianism.

 

LOL, ok, I'm sure all 4 told/tell you the truth

 

Lot's of gay guys come out much later on, not everyone steps out of the closet at 12.

So suffice to say, many gay men much like myself my have had sexual encounters with girls before boys anyways. Even though I would always suggest to keep an open mind in life, I don't go out of my way to try and persuade such actions.

 

I had a crush on a gay guy once, I would have very much liked to make him experiment with someone who was a girl, unfortunately he already had and he found his first gay boyfriend at 26 (((

 

I've tried unsuccessfully to convert a lesbian to heterosexuality.