I'm seventeen and I've never masturbated and am still almost a complete virgin. I've only ever kissed a guy (close mouthed)...I hear about shit and read shit all the time and I'm feeling a touch....immature....in that department. Am I odd or is this fine, normal?
What/who is normal? Of course it's fine, you're seventeen, not fifty. And even if you were fifty.. Don't worry about it. The right time will come.
Its like everything else in the world, if you don't feel like you want to do it, then why worry? If all your friends drink, but you don't like the taste, then why should you force yourself? If you just aren't interested in sex or masturbating, then why worry. Hell, more power to you. You're probably able to do a lot more productive stuff with your free time than the rest of us are.
Yeah, don't worry; you're doing fine. Just don't fight it if the issue does come up. It's okay to experiment, it's perfectly okay not to. Trust your own feelings.
When I was 17 I was having so much sex. Not so much now Have you ever had an orgasm? because if you did not when you do you will start seeking out sex more no doubt.
Do want you want to do. Don't live your life to impress other people. Older people have always told me that one day you'll realize what other people think really doesn't matter. As I've gotten older myself I have to admit I care less and less what someone else thinks.
no sister you are not odd. to be honest i never masturbated until i was 19 and i never got myself off until like a few months ago. just because you haven't had sex or masturbated that doesn't make u immature hun!
Although it may be considered as unusual, there's certainly nothing wrong with it. At least you have the advantage of knowing what masturbation is & how to go about doing it if & when you feel the urge to do so. Whether you decide to masturbate or not is the same as whether you decide to have sex or not - it should be YOUR choice, not something that you feel you should do merely because of peer pressure. Personally I have far more respect for someone, be they male or female, who is not embarassed to openly declare that they are still virgins than someone who makes a big deal about the vast experience they've had with the opposite sex - or the same sex, for that matter. Be proud to be yourself.
Thanks, I feel a lot better about it some. I mean, I know it doesn't matter and I shouldn't feel pressured to but like..I don't know. I'm told by friends that it makes you feel better and that if you're stressed it can help, and so I've tried (numerous times) with no success. I guess part of me is a bit worried that there might be something wrong with me or something...Iunno, but thanks!
I'm a bit overweight, yes. But not...horribly disgusting...I mean...Iunno, I think I look alright, but I should lose some weight...
I find it admirable if you are not doing it for some religious reason. This is scalar to your hotness. (hotter more interesting) so many used woman where I am at that a good virgin would shake things up.
you are perfectly normal, everyone have a moment to start in sex. dont worry, you will do it when you want. Just dont have strange thoghts about sex, relax dont think too much and do what YOU tink its right. You will be fine
Yes, you are odd! You are odd to all the morons and idiots who even gave you the slightest idea to question your good standards and wisdom...
"This above all - to thine own self be true! And it shall follow as night the day. Thou cans't do no harm to any man (one.)" Shakespeare
Height and weight please. Not to be rude, but if you're 5"5 and over 160, you should lose some weight.
