Girlfriend Had Sex With Her Friend

My girlfriend and high have been going out for almost a year, recently I have grown especially in love with her.

About 3 months ago we fought and I decided to take a break with her.

About two days after the break, her friend told me she went on a date with a guy, gave him road head, he fingered her than she asked him if he had a condom and they had sex in the backseat of his car.

I asked her and she denied it and said I thought she would be a slut like that.

About a day or two after that she came to my house and we ended up having sex and getting back together as a couple. Her vagina was foaming and much different that normal. I didn’t say anything at the time, but not like it is normally if we hadn’t at sex for a week.

There was another guy she was kissing and talking to at the time that gave her a ride to my house and said she got lost after she said she was right near my house with him, and think that might be why her vagina was different during sex, but denied this when I asked.

A few days later she admitted to having sex with the first guy, but didn’t suck him off, but admitted to being fingered and asking for a condom. I asked her how long they have sex for and she said ‘About 2 minutes.’

Recently we became so close and she told me that she felt bad about what she did with him while we were on a break and feels like she lost a part of me. About an hour after the apology she said that it really wasn’t two minutes, but she got fingered, asked him for a condom, but it only lasted a few seconds and she told him to get off right away.

I have felt so strong for her and don’t know if I should believe what she said for 3 months or what she told me yesterday. I’m so confused and just want to know the truth which now she says it was only a few seconds. Should I believe her, now that I love her I can’t bare not knowing what had happened. Should I believe what she said the first time as in two minutes or what she said now?

 

round 3?

 

This is number seven of this exact post. Since this is somewhat an appropriate forum I'll leave it. DO NOT spam this discussion any further. Thank you.

 

sorry i will not

 

1) Does it matter if she had sex with him for 2 minutes or an hour? sex is sex. If one bothers you shouldn't the other?

2) You guys were broken up at the time, you should let it go imo. Ask her about the foamy stuff, if it's still there next time, could be some kind of infection..

3) But you really need to decide if you're bothered by what she did or not, she went as far as to admit they had sex, sure the 2 minutes sounds like a cover up but she is being reasonably honest with you here. So I wouldn't be angry about it from an honesty standpoint, unless you demand full disclosure, or you find out she's lying from someone else. But whether or not you care that she had sex with someone else is really up to you. It sounds like you have a reason to not trust her?

 

Sounds to me like this person is using you. You'll never be able to trust what she says and anything she says could be a lie. If you don't mind that kind of insecurity then stay with her. If you want an honest relationship look elsewhere.

 

I actually found out she did have sex with him and on more than one occasion. She also had sex with another guy the first week we dated.

 

sounds like a dirty bitch to me. lose that chick, shes just fucking around with you clearly.

 

dude, learn to walk away. This girl obviously has issues with trust, you don't need that baggage in your life man.

there's plenty where she came from.