Dreadlocked dating?

You may be on a diet... but it doesn't stop you from looking at the cakes....
Or occasionally sticking you finger in ! (I in any shape or form DO NOT condone such behaviour...).

I can relate to the self concious thing...
I have never gone up to a ranom lass in a bar an started speaking to her...
I have around town an stuff if they say something along the lines o 'nice bike' etc... As soon as you have a talking point it goes from there...

*thinks back to when my fiance' saw my pink pedals....*

 

dude thats exactly like me, I cant talk to random girls in bars or clubs at all, if they are friends of friends then maybe a hello, but thats it


thanks tannaleigh

 

I'd have to go dittos with tannaleigh xD

I'd love to have a fellow dreadhead... my bf said he mIGHt get dreads when his hair is longer (I must stop pressuring him xD) *sigh*

I just can't stop swooning at dreadheads!! Male or female!! xD

Dreads + tattoos + couple of piercings = ULTIMATE NOMAGE

 

The people don't understand my hair is over used, sorry you're just making it A LOT harder on yourselves for finding someone by shutting people down without a fair shot. I reserve judgment for at least 2 weeks, and if they are still dumb by then. They're wasting my time haha.

My hair seems to strike a convo a lot of the time when it's with the opposite sex. I tell em I wash it. oh yes, they love to hear that and I also have this attitude of "be nice to me, I be nice to u. fuck with me i fuck with u", and ever since I adopted it, I've been getting more "market" (+ my balls hang low...that's confidence in myself for u that don't want to picture balls suspended - too late?)

But I have not ran into a "single" dreaded chick, single being her relationship status. I would want it more than anything just to "throw game" her way and see what's up haha. anyways, if u in colorado (north region - fort collins) And SINGLE, drop me a holla and let me know ur out there

 

But Phil, random girls in bars and clubs are just people, the same sorts of people who go to supermarkets and buy potatoes and tampons, and they are the friends of somebody's friends. Ya know? Stop being a big goon and go pull some random totty

 

id love to date a ladie w/ dreads!!

 

I love Amy's wisdom..
Chatting to randomers is good..
Friends of friends is always easy.. if your not hitting it off with someone then it isnt meant to be... there will always be olk you just click with...
I recon ya gotta come to Shetland. Friendliest place on earth

 

yeah, i love my dreads, but havent had any experience with the females of the species since i got them. but that s partly because i go to a college where there are 6 guys to 1 girl out of about 1500 people. we will see how it goes when i go back home to colorado though. but i find that if you end up looking for a relationship for someone, you are getting into a relationship for the wrong reason (so you wont be alone) which is a bad idea. whatever happens with someone will happen, ive been single for 7 months and im not one of those typical guys who can just go out and have a one night stand with someone.(damn me and my morals) but i know i will eventually find someone and be happy but that will happen when it happens

 

oh, and another thing that gets on my nerves. girls who always go for the hot jock type guys who rely on their looks to get what they want (and usually do). its guys like me and my best friend back home who get the shaft. i have had manual labor jobs all my life, mostly landscaping and painting. and i could take a car engine apart and put it back together, ive done it. its the practical things that are important and a lot of girls dont see that, at least yet. and im the only person on my college campus with dreads, but i think dating a girl with dreads would be very cool

 

?!?

Yeh and guys never just go for the leggy blonde do they...
(btw I've been the leggy blonde so I know, and I also know the daily wolf-whistles stopped dead the day I dyed my hair and got some piercings)

 

i dont talk to people in supermarkets either lol....

i just dont fnd it that easy... i dont like leaving myself open to making a fool out of myself or being rejected.... i have issues i guess

 

yes, yes you do =]

im nice, i dont bite, unless im in the right kinda mood.. hmm..


weirdly enough, when i was drunk at 2pm today (becoming a regular occurance, not good), we was talking about this in the pub.. lads having trouble speaking to girls etcetc

 

well i figure it like this...make a lasting impression, the worst they could say is no...no big deal, suck it up and move on, youll find someone, i got the phone number of a 22 year old waitress last year because i just asked and was polite. and she gave it to me and i was happy.

 

You look soooo hot! Girls really don't climb over each other to get to you?

There are vitually no dreadheads here in Hong Kong, I don't really know what the local guys here think of it, but I get compliments from the ladies.

Haven't dated since i got mine, actually I don't think I've ever really dated?? Just ended up in relationships with people i started out as friends with, college, travel, work etc... but I think more people in the UK are starting to do the formal dating thang....espcially in big cities where it's hard to meet people.

 

Dating!?
The insanity of it!!!

 

I had a lot of trouble meeting people for the longest time. As my hair dreaded over the last year, I gained more self confidence and began to meet more people. What is great to me is you can go into a bar or pub and be the only dready in the place and there isn't a girl in the entire place that won't see check you out at some point. I think people with dreads have the ability to make an entire room of people to look your way, whether good or bad. No less, just have dreads increased your odds of of being noticed by someone that is attracted you. And most like people that are attracted to dreads, will be attractive to you.

I just met a gorgeous girl a couple weeks ago by doing exactly what I was describing. She approached me. We hit it of great and have more in common than I could have imagined. It's all about how you carry yourself, having a little confidence, AND having something interesting to say.

 

I know....I actually can't really imagine it. I was in a relationship from age 16 until 26 then straight into my current relationship/marriage, so the whole "game" is very alien to me. From what I can gather, the main problems usually stem from people never just being open and frank with each other, rather than turning it into one big guessing-game nightmare

 

ive never dated, im more of a relationship type person.. im either single or im not, never somewhere inbetween. (currently single.....)

 

Wow, Phil, dont get so down on yourself.....granted some people do have issues going upto some random person and having a chat, but what have you got to lose? Even if you talk random bollocks to them! If they have a ounce of fun they'll stick around and talk shit back to you, if not then so what. Go after the next lady.
Your are lovely, you've just not bumped into the right person yet.

If guys had an issue with my dreads, then i would be a bit freaked out! Its not happened yet tho!

I see your from the UK too, hoorah. Not met many on the forum yet who are. What music do you play?

 

yeaaaah phil. and as i said in the other thread, i would.. and i meant it..