Giving a valentine card to exes?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Sininabin, Feb 13, 2009.

  1. Sininabin

    Sininabin Member

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    I mean we are still friends.....awkward friends but at least we still talk. It was a generally a pretty smooth break-up and defiantly a rocky relationship. I know where her office is and I was planning on just making a construction paper heart and writing happy valentines xxxxx and not write who it is from. Last year when we were together I remembered she wished she got more valentine wishes.

    I can understand how it could be really weird I mean I still like her but it is not like I hoping we make up or anything, and that office might be where her new boyfriend also works. But it is not out of my way so it would not be very hard and I was just hoping to give something sweet. I just wish I could make it and she would not know it is from me. I want to make a valentine card but she is the only girl I know who I would not mind putting some time to show them some care.

    Too weird?
     
  2. raz5

    raz5 زینب

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    yeah see i was iffy and half on half what my opinion was going to be until i read 'her boyfriend' i actually stopped reading and typed this, let me read the rest....


    yeah i think it would be weird, especially since she's moved on. my ex and i had a rocky relationship, best break up i've ever had we still talk but yeah it's awkward. i've been thinking about getting him something but all and all i'm like no it will probably cause problems and make me want to be with him even more. if you want to get over her you shouldn't do that, i think her boyfriend will also get angry (if he's that kind of guy)


    i'm just sayin... no,
    if you wanna make a valentines day card you can make me one and leave in on my steps 8)
     
  3. MaximusXXX

    MaximusXXX Senior Member

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    I cut off all contact with my exes the minute we broke up.

    Maybe I'm an asshole that way but that's the best way to MOVE ON.
     
  4. kinulpture

    kinulpture Member

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    movin on is really the best way. the friends thing can be bad sometimes. ex`es can sometimes throw their new lover in your face, etc..
     
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