Advice me....................urgent..........!

I am bisexual and friends i need ur advice that how and what should i reply to Chat starts with exchange of stats and prefs we look for. Well as i tell my age like " m 28 yrs old, ht 5 11", 70kg, 32waist" and show them my pic, Guys/ people do not reply and goes offline. I know they must hav not liked either my pic or stats but my question is why the hell people do not respond at least to say "not interested". It hurts a lot when people do not reply after knowing all stats and pic.
Please friends tell me what should i reply to make them realize or to ashamed them.

 

To be honest, you need to get used to it. I've bitched and complained about the same thing (to myself), but over time I've discovered that people like to keep it as descrete as possible. Most often guys with experience in the bi-world tend to despense with the small talk. If they don't like what they see, it's best not to say anything at all, versus explaining what it is about you they don't like. I mean it's just like when you'r mom told you that if you can't say something nice about that person.... you get the picture.

Secondly, you're dealing with a guy, and not a girl. By nature most of us men aren't confrontational. So creating an argument over looks is pointless, especially when we can just not say anything and move on to something more appealing to the eye. And this is not to call you ugly, but try using the logic God gave man and look at it from that point of view.

So my advice, don't get too involved with hearing back from a large percentage of the guys you meet. Chances are 98% of them just want to meet up right away for some instant and spontaneous sexual exchange. Just make sure you let them know what preference you are (top or bottom). Otherwise, if you're a top and don't say anything, you could be looking at a tree trunk being shoved up your ass. That almost happened to me on my first encounter when I realized his cock was about the same thickness as my wrist/forearm. Fortunately I was more muscular and stronger than him, in case it got ugly. So I topped him instead.

So relax, and don't take your conversations too seriously. Chances are, the other guy might even be BSing you around just to collect pictures or lead you on. Just don't get too emotionally involved with getting together... that's all. Take your time.

 

Good advice by our resident profezzor here!

In addition to that, do yourself a huge havor and have a very good look at pix you are sending. People are expecting almost professional quality production these days. A pic showing you in a Christmas sweater knitted by Aunt Emily 3 years ago might project a very wrong image and turn down even guys, who would be otherwise, very keen on meeting you. (Pimp it up...)

KD