My friends Wife....what to do????

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by salatheel, Feb 20, 2009.

  1. salatheel

    salatheel Member

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  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    How about you stop being a dick and leave your friends wife alone? Your certainly adding to the issue, and your having a emotional affair on your wife.
     
  3. lynzxx

    lynzxx Senior Member

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    errrmmmm.... thats a tough one,.... maybe dont get involved??.. and i know you wrote to her as "bait".. but the husband might get a bit upset that she sent you those pictures, and that you seen his wife in that way..

    but its bad that he's over in iraq and shes sluttin around behind his back..
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    .ahhh im confused sorry i duno what you should do.
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    the poor man :(
     
  4. nicnic

    nicnic Banned

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    thats a tough one. See if you can get some pics of her pussy will ya.

    Well tell your wife her friend is a whore!

    But seriously.

    Not so sure posting them on a pic share page is a good idea. Maybe just leave it alone take the pics down . Do you worry your wife is into extra activities ?
     
  5. wrathofjade

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    Get rid of that flicker page and Stop messaging her. And if you really want to say something talk to your wife cause she obviously knows something about this.
     
  6. jaredfelix

    jaredfelix Namaste ॐ

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    i would totally tell both the husband and wife that they might want to consider counciling and tell them both what happened...
     
  7. salatheel

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    That is what I was wondering. My wife and I separated years back for 6 months. I moved out and she moved in. At that time I felt she was dragging my wife out trying to get her hooked up with anyone possible. But I don't think that my wife is.
    My wife and I have a had a very strained relationship for a long time and the long term outlook is not good.
    The sad part is her husband is totally head over heels for his wife and worships the ground she walks on. While she has always had the hots for an ex that sings in a band. It's a very one sided relationship.
     
  8. salatheel

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    I have confronted my wife with her friends behavior before and she always brushes it off as being harmless.
     
  9. salatheel

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    I really feel bad for him! He is totally in love with her. I'm afraid how he will react to her.
    After talking to her I am convinced she is doing this with many guys and probably having multiple affairs while he is over there.
     
  10. Mothman

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    Assuming that your story is legit...Lose the flickr page. You say she is your wife's friend, there is a saying...birds of a feather flock together. You may want to keep an eye on your own relationship and stay out of it. How would the guy in Iraq feel about you having a flickr page of his wife? Do you also fight crime when the sun goes down?
     
  11. nicnic

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    if your good friends with this guy you owe it to him to tell him. That is what id do anyway.
     
  12. salatheel

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    So just ignore it and it will go away?

    Do you also fight crime when the sun goes down?

    I have been thinking about it!
     
  13. Mothman

    Mothman Senior Member

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    Look at how you handled this...you looked through your wife's phone...you created a fake myspace profile to contact her and sent bogus messages... and now you have a bunch of pics of her on your flickr page. C'mon bruh, what the fuck is that?

    If you are really that close with the guy, then I would suggest keeping quiet until he gets back, he doesn't need to hear this while he is over there.

    Let me know if you want to fight crime at night though...I'm down.
     
  14. zenloki

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    mothman you're right on about the whole birds of a feather thing.

    if it was me and the outlook for a LTR wasn't good, i'd be making plans and schemes to get away from all of that drama. i'm sure the women's husband knows something about the one-sided nature of their relationship and with that he should have been forewarned. do you know that they might be alright with that or the husband may be alright with her tramping around on him.

    it's a wasp nest so don't go poking sticks into it.
     
  15. MrDot

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    WHAT A SLUT, fuckin hoe. You should've never done all that though, should've just mentioned it. Now your wife might take it as "Oh so you like her?"
     
  16. missie

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    1. Do you want to get back or improve relations with your wife? Focus and spend time and energy addressing that. Communicate! Sit down and get to the root of the issues that bother you and her. Don’t get up until you feel you gotten to the very end of the barrel. Even if there are tears, heated accusations, screaming fits or silent moments. If this relationship is important to you – you’ll find a way to take action – her too. It takes time and effort, but it’s worth it. Be truthful but gentle, this will encourage her to open up too. Take turns talking – let her finish then you do the same. No judgment… just talking and listening.

    2. Friends should add to your life – not take from it. Your wife’s friend is affecting your relationship with your partner. Put your foot down and demand your wife get decent friends. I don’t think the friend living in the same house is a good idea either. YOU, as her life partner should take higher priority then a friend that has corrupted morals !!

    3. If you were the soldier husband and fighting a war – would you still want to know what your wife really gets up too? Stop messaging/communicating your wife’s friend. Put the photos on private. Send it to the soldier husband anonymously when he returns. He deserves to know.

    Good luck.
     
  17. Rigamarole

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    Damn dude, if that story is true... ROFL.
     
  18. salatheel

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    She used to live with us. She moved out because we told her we needed some sort of rent from her. She ended up moving in with some other friends and met her husband. He was a roommate. Well, talking to her online I manuvered her into talking about her best friend and she came up with this story. Which is total B.S.
     
  19. salatheel

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    I was living with my best friend and she was working and her
    husband made me and him drinks and he said he never kissed a girl with a tongue
    ring and he wanted to kiss me....so he tried to grab me and he said he had alway
    wanted me and that I was beautiful...blah blah u know how guys talk....so he
    grabbed me and he was basically tried to rape me...but I left before that happen
    so I went to my boyfriends house and I stayed with him and his roommates!......so
    I wanted to tell her but I new she wouldn't believe me my word against
    his!....so I stopped coming around....its sad cuz he was my best friend! I'm
    always getting hit on! It just get so tiring of that crap...u know!..
     
  20. pushit

    pushit One jive Motha Fucka

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    If you aren't talking lies then don't be so trashy? Don't cheat on your wife, I'm sure this woman knows you if her and your wife are friends. Don't fuck up, drop the whole thing.
     

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