How do i tell my boyfriend that i'm a nudist?(outside of school)I mean i have to tell him sometime or i could just invite him over to my house and answer the door naked.....
A lot depends on what's happening in your relationship. Is it solid or tentative, and is it sexual? If you're having sex, then being naked isn't so big a thing to share. In fact you could just say, "Let's stay naked--I often go nude when I'm alone." But if you haven't reached that point yet, it might be embarrassing to talk about nudity. If you did mention it, would he be likely to take it as a suggestion that you wanted to make the relationship sexual? Maybe you should try to imagine the conversation that would follow saying "I'm a nudist". If you think it could go where you don't want to go, it might be better not to say anything.
lol ive done this a few times now and im still not sure of the right way! one thing i would say is dont make it a big deal. you know the whole "ive got something to tell you..." type speech. it just makes them panic! ive found just gradually introducing nudity works best. like, the first time we spend the night together, when i get up in the morning just not putting anything on (just as i would if they werent there)... most times it'll get a comment and then i'll quite casually say that im "kind of a nudist" and take it from there. if you arent in a position to do that, theres other things you can do too. like, you could ask him what he thinks of nudism, then whatever his reply say "well, actually, im a nudist"... or if its a hot day and you guys are at school or something, you could say something like "man its hot, i cant wait to get home and get out of these clothes" and see if he realises what you said. or start a conversation on IM or text or something asking him what hes wearing, hopefully he'll reply and ask you the same and you can say something like "nothing... as usual". or do one of those myspace/livejournal/facebook surveys where theres a question "what are you wearing?" and put as your answer "well im a nudist so - nothing" and mail it to him. keep it fun and have fun with it and it'll work. but dont keep it a secret too long coz sometimes that just makes it harder to tell them.
TALK to him first about this! Don't spring the "visuals" on him without preparing him. Simply tell him that you enjoy social nudism and tell him exactly what that means. If he can get past the point of knowing that other man have seen you naked, and possibly still do on a somewhat regular basis, AND if he is willing to be naked himself, in order to be with you while you are nude, then maybe he will want to join you. Shared nudity can be a wonderful way for a couple to get more closely acquainted. Being naked together encourages open-ness and honestly on all fronts. It is even conceivable that a male and female could have a shared-nudity relationship without being sexually active together!
Defineatly don't spring it on him by just opening the door naked, no matter how much he'd enjoy that , but in all seriousness, most male teenager's first thought if they saw a naked girl (let alone their girlfriend) standing there talkin to em, would be "damn, she wants to jump my bones" or along those lines. If you trust him you should talk to him about it, some place that's comfortable to help reduce the awkwardness.
I know this is late, but I'll add my two cents worth, of it's even worth that. It depends on how serious your relationship is with him. He could spread it around if he thinks it's gross. I have a son-in-law who who embarrassed when he saw a nude photo of me on my computer. Why would a man be embarrassed to see another man nude? Anyway, before telling him you like to be nude and either getting him excited or grossed out, ask him what he thinks of non-sexual nudity. If he's like most males, he doesn't believe there is any such thing as non-sexual nudity.
I suggest talking to him, not confronting him, if you've not already broached the subject in the last three months.
i think you should just tell him, i mean if it;'s someone you plan on being with for a while you have to let him know things that are important to you and that have to do with you --- if you tell him too late there's always the chance he is like wtf peace, and you've already become in love with him and it breaks your heart! let him know soon!
