Getting girlfriend to orgasm through sex... Help!

Ok.. im having a bit of a dilema here! The problem is that I cant seem to get my girlfriend off any way except rubbing her with my hands, which luckily, she finds to be a big turn on and enjoys it anyways. Although she has never complained, it really bugs me that I cant get her off any other way. Even through oral sex she gets really close but cant seem to get past climax.. which puzzles me considering other girls i have slept with absolutely love it when i eat them out and find it the easiest way to get off.

Something i have considered is that she is so used to getting off one way that she finds it difficult to get off any other way, especially with the difference in body position ect. Another is that she barely knows her own body... she never masterbates and has never been with another guy other than me so its very difficult for her to even communicate things she likes, dislikes ect because she really has no idea lol.

So what im really looking for I guess is advice on things i could do to try to make it easier for us to figure out how to improve her orgasms and find different methods of getting her off... Any help would be greatly appreciated.

AND another thing i forgot to mention is that often during sex in certain positions, she "gets all tingly" and is obviously climaxing to something, but ALWAYS gets me to stop because it gets so intense. This happens when im inside her with my fingers too and stimulating her g-spot. Help!

 

Two words.


Don't stop.

 

No two women are a like, each one is different.

Impatient to get her off will only make the situation worse.

Relax, caress her don't rub her, rubbing is something you do to a car when you want to polish the paint work.

Caressing is really gliding your hands over a women's body tickling the skin cells on a cushion of air almost.

Try caressing her to sleep, don't even have the attitude of making love.

Don't be impatient, even if you don't penetrate be aware of what she needs, not what you want.

If she's tired just help her sleep.

If she is too tired, there is not much point, trying to race in there and boink her, trying to get yourself off is selfish and she wont like that.

Be honest and just caress her if she responds thats your cue to go further, if not don't.

Its inteligence to wait for the right time.

When they are rested, and all their needs are met.

Then and only then should you take if further.

 

Youve got to find a way that either stimulates her clit, or hits something good inside. G-spot or whatever else.

I had the same problem for awhile, I could make her come with oral or digital stimulation, but not with intercourse. Now I know about two spots inside, and how to fuck her in ways that hit her clit alot more.

First is the G-spot of course, which you may or may not be able to hit with your cock, and if you can it may or may not be pleasureable for you. I can hit it with some wierd angles, but it feels very odd to me and doesnt do the trick for me.

However, my wife also has a spot inside, pretty far in there, that I can hit when we go missionary + ankles up by ears. That one makes her cum hard and long, but I cant keep it up too long between the amazing angle and the constant contractions on my cock.

For good positions, try this: Have her get on cowgirl style after some sloppy, wet oral so she is really wet and her clit is already stimulated. Get in there nice and deep, and then have her lay forward on your chest, and straighten her legs out behind her. Embrace her around the small of her back/top of her ass bone, and push her down into you while you slowly work it, stay with short strokes for now so that you are staying as deep in her as you can, providing just a bit of friction while you grind her clit against your pelvic area and the top of the shaft. Now start making the axis of your pushes go down and slightly away from you, so you are pulling the top of the shaft across her clit as you come out, then again when you go back in, where you grind her clit and push down hard on her ass. You have to work your hips a bit to keep the angles right, and she will likely start some movements of her own, so pay attention to where everything is at, its easy to pop out doing this. I cannot come from this position though, so make sure she is willing to do something else after shes got hers this way.

Another goods one that works equally well for me is the scissors position, you can hit alot of clit with that one while still getting some good friction.

Something we've discovered recently - she has more frequent and stronger orgasms from normal intercourse with a buttplug in. It took us ten years to work up to this level of open-mindedness though, so that may not be for you just yet, I dunno. I will say that I could never make her come from doggystyle before, and she does with a plug in, especially if I swirl it around just a bit at the right time.