Have you ever seen runaway bride? well thats me, i likethe things my b.fs like, i adapt to them,become there perfect g.f,and wenthey fallin love with me, some have even proposed, but wen they do commit and get heavy,i run away. Ivebeen with my new b.f 2 months now,he seys he loves me, his mum adores me,i cook 4 him, givehim massages,wehavegreat sex, hisfriends like me, i even say yes sir, wen he assksme to do something for him. I like being the good g.f,but how doistop myself from running away from him,bcoz this guy is seriously great,maybe too good for me, but im scared i will run away, again.
Sounds like you have problems with yourself and should try to take care of those instead. Stop tring to become what someone wants and find someone that wants you.
Sounds like you need to get out of relationships for a while and figre out some things about yourself, before bringing someone else into the picture.
You say "Yes sir" to your boyfriend??!! Girl, what the hell is wrong with you?? I agree with Super Girl--this is not something that can be solved in a relationship. Tell your bf you need a break because you have personal issues you need to work on. yes sir...**shivers**
Ma'am, may I suggest that men who are willing to make a "serious commitment" after only 2 months are not worthy of you?
LOL! "Yes sir!" I dig the shivers quotes. But I do agree. I have been with my husband for 6 years and married for 6 months and there is no way on this great green planet I would ever below myself before him. Same with me...he will not do the same for me. We are equal partners in this relationship who care for one another. Take some personal time and figure out who you are...don't forget Julia Roberts did the same thing...the egg thing seemed weird though...peace and love and good luck.
hmm its not as bad as it sounds, we are equals, but the whole point is im scared tht it wont work, and ive known hima year, and i know we havnt been going outlong, but realtionships with me seem2 be finnishing quicker and quicker because i keep finnishing them and moving onto the next guy. The whole yes sir thing, well his a very traditonal catholic man, its just the way it is, its all done in happiness.
Catholic thing, huh? Sounds more like a bdsm thing. Which is fine for a lot of people, but outside of the bedroom, referring to him as sir.... I dunno, I would dump any guy who asked me to do that. Maybe for playing in the bedroom once or twice to see what it's like, but certainly not outside. Boundaries my girl, boundaries.
after uni, his going into the army as an officer, i dnt think he will change, but i wldnt want him too, the whole sir thing doesnt bother me,what bothers me, is the whole me not bein able to stay with anyone longer then a couple of months.
As was mentioned before, it sounds like you really really need to get out of this relationship (even if it is just a "break"), stay out of relationships for a while, & work on YOU. There is a reason you keep running, & it has nothing to do with this guy. Yes, I agree that the "sir" thing is fucked up, but that is completely irrelevant to your issues. You need to take some time for yourself, maybe see a counsellor, & figure out what is missing from you. Why do you mold yourself into the "perfect girlfriend" for guys? That's not healthy. That is a sign that you are missing your own personality. I have yet to meet a man worth dating that would want a girlfriend like that -- the good ones want someone with a personality of her own. Until you take the time to get a strong sense of who you are, you will likely never have a healthy, lasting relationship.
do you see yourself settling down with him? if you keep running is it that you do not feel right with the person you are with?
It sounds like you need to find out who you are first. And what you are doing in your relationship may turn you on now but in a few years when you are older you may grow to resent him for having so much control over you. And unless you are calling him that in a completley playfull way than imo there is something a little demented about any guy who makes his girlfriend refer to him as sir. Men usually naturally hold the power in a relationship to a certain extent but it's because in my experience they usually have your best interest at heart but at the same time you need to be your own person and have your wishes respected.
hey purple...what are your dreams? your ambitions? do you like to write? dance? act? or do you love to do math when you do not have to?
proud2 be deviate, thanku 4 ur advice, and laurelbsytree, i want to be a childrens nurse and join the red cross, other than that, helping people, helping my friends, looking after people, being my mothers careerer, thats as much as there is to me.
i am the exact same way. i like to get a guy to like me and then somehow i dont like him anymore and id try really hard to like him bc i felt like such a bitch and like id lead him on. and i wanted to like the guys because they were all really great guys. i have no idea why this is. i think some guys have this problem to. maybe its just that you get bored easily or you like to play games. its unbearable isnt it not being able to like the guy anymore that you want to like and got to like you? sounds crazy. just try to talk yourself through it and use mind over body i guess- that would apply here? dont lose him he sounds great. good luck!
