I've been thinking how men and woman are diferent, i know these are just generlizations and probaly not acurate (the older i get the more i realize how how young i am) but i wanted to write them out any way. ok here goes and I'll try and be fair, please feel free to set me straight if i come off as an ignorant dummass when a man tells a male freind how messed up his relationship is and how his ol lady is giving him fits the friend is likely to either shrug and tell ya deal with it, or try and help you figure out ways to fix it when a woman tells her girl freind how messed up things are the girlfriend is likely to jump on the band wagon and tell her how messed up her olman realy is men have to learn compation more so than woman, for them it is inate well shit, i thought i would be able too come up with alot of diferences, but I am drawing a complete blank
haha it's all good man.... here are a couple of my own: umm... i know i have some *looks around for a second, spies door, runs out!*
They studied men who were becoming women and women who were becoming men via hormone treatments, and they noticed some very real changes in behavior and different forms of intelligence. The woman who was becoming man lost alot of her verbal and social skills, her short term memory, her ability to be patient and her writing ability, while gaining better mathematical and analytical capabilities. Vise versa for the man becoming a woman. I know I might be mining about in un-PC territory here, but I think this info is important in understanding one another. If men forget things more than women do, prefer to reason out problems rather than empathize about them, and lack the social capabilities that women have, it is helpful to understand this so that women don't feel hurt. On the other hand, it is helpful for men to understand that when women vent to you it is really irritating when you try to rationalize, that just giving simple compliments on a daily basis can mean the world for your relationship and that leaving the toilet seat up is like forgetting to shut the floodgates to hell. It is also important to note that differences in chemical make-up will make women drawn to certain occupations. Perhaps equal rights shouldn't be so much about making sure there as many female mathematicians as there are men, but to make sure that women are paid as much as men for the same work and that the work that women ARE drawn to is properly appreciated. Also, some women are biologically more like men and vice versa, so the same science proves that homosexuality and other sexual variations are completely natural. I think I am one of those women that is more manly in many ways, so I might be drawn just a little more towards work that men usually do, but I find the many psychological and societal barriers frustrating. But, just like a woman, look how long and overly verbal my post is....sigh.
I'm just very intense and very logical. I tend to bother my female friends with my tendency to rationalize out problems rather than emphasize, and my male friends with my intensity and having more life experiencse than they can handle. Individualistic, interesting men don't seemed bothered by this, but they always have g-friends
I think its also the way we are raised. Girls are taught at a young age to embrace emotions & the spoken word while boys are expected to be competitive & supress their emotions.
woman have to deal with a great deal of hormonal changes and chemical imbalences, just reliezed i should toss that in
It does seem odd to me that any man would be bothered by that although I completley believe it. It seems like it would be so much easier ( and allow for much more interesting conversation) to comunicate. Could be maybe that most men are way to wrapped up in themselves. Maybe that's a people thing though as I know plenty of women that fall into that as well. I guess the whole deal is to stay true to yourself and hope for the best.
Just my opinion but i think trying to catagorise people in groups of sex is very silly not intending to cause offense but i meet women and men all the time that are "by some of the descriptions here" the wrong sex everyone is different and i think that putting people into groups of male and female to analyse them is just like saying "what are the difference between chinese people and american people" its just too big a range ... sorry if my typeing is incoherant and <-- missspelled lol i have had not counting long blinks 3 hours of sleep in the last 4 days ... unless you where talking physically then find your self a partner and (with her permission) explore. Peace & Love p.s. goodnight all
