Well, It started all like this. I met him in Elementary school & now we're in High school, he's been my friend for over 5 years. And I'm metro to the max .__. but no one knows I'm bi. And I've noticed, he stares at me when he thinks I'm looking somewhere else or talking, In middle school, he'd always do stuff to me in the Locker room like putting me under his shirt. I USE to like him as fuck, but I thought it'd be impossible since he's straight & seen a couple of girls. And btw, he'd always touch me .__. .. Ex: Ass, arm, almost everywhere except my penis. .__. Is my friend gay/bi or am I just paranoid?
Maybe he's just as curious but isn't sure how to initiate anything. Try getting into a setting where both of you are alone at night while sipping on some brews. That'll loosen your tongues so you can find out exactly what the other is thinking. At best, you'll get the answer and become closer, or you'll get the answer and know where you stand so you can have closure. And if there's any flirting going on, touch him down there in a subtle way to test the waters and see if he's receptive to it...
Like the Prof said, get the right setting. If you guys hang out together, you must talk about a lot of different things. How about the internet? I thought of whole scenarios that could get you onto the topic, but in short, you could discuss porn and lead into bi/gay porn and ask him if he has ever seen any? You shouldn't have any problem with saying that you have seen it, perhaps in a MMF threesome. If that leads into the two of you checking out gay or bi porn, you are off to the races. Every guy has thought the thought, even if he has rejected the idea in his own head. Saying that you wondered what it would be like( even self sucking) isn't a bad thing. Here's one: If you could get on the topic of needing a good bj , say that you need one so bad, you would do it to yourself if you could. Every guy would if he could, Right? Once on the topic, take it from there. Did he/you ever try? Couldn't get close enough? Why not just do it to each other then? That's not gay. Reminds me of the Joe Rogan routine.
