Why don't good guys exist?

Seriously, I always look for a good guy but they are never around. All u boys want is the same damn thing. There reallis more to a girl than what you see on the outside. You know i have never even met a reliable man, forget about a good guy, just a reliable one. Even my dad isn't very reliable. U all flake out all the time. What do you guys really care about? I mean really there has to be something you actually care about besides typical "macho" stuff. Isn't there any guy with a heart that isn't devoted to sexual desires and childish games?

 

You seem excited for life.

 

There's nice guys out there, being one i can speak for them.

 

I'm a nice guy, girls never want nice guys. If I was in love I would do everything I can for that girl. But what do I want? To be stoned and have sex(virgin and all that) and party.

 

^ this guy. Same thing. I just wanna smoke weed and be happy and chill around, and if i have a girl friend or a thing with a girl I'm really nice to them, massages and everything (magic hands ), but I always attract slutty girls, cause the nice ones are too shy, and IMO them just wanting to do it is a big turnoff.

 

To tell you the truth I wish I could attract a slutty girl. I'd like to know what I'm doing when I do eventually attract a good woman. I really don't get the whole magic hands thing though.

 

I used to feel the way you do but have since been convinced otherwise. There are good guys around... they're just hard to find. The same could be said for alot of women.

 

^ Yeah, I know a whore that broke up with her boyfriend because some other guy could get her fucked up more often. Now hes in boot camp getting ready to go to war.

 

Well yeah some girls are pretty nasty, and guys always say you are nice or that you would do anything for your girl, but u can't prove it, and those who say they can prove it keep u goin until they let u down.

 

Guys can be assholes. There are alot of good guys out there too though. I consider myself a fairly decent fella and therein lies my problem. Maybe you have some good guys around you that feel the same way I do. In today's society women seem to go for the bad boys. The few girls that are the exception to that rule that I come across are already dating and will probably be in that status for quite some time.

Perhaps you should look at your friends that are guys. Why are they just friends? And why do you get along with them so well?

There aren't alot of girls out there that I've come across that are single, into geeks, don't mind pot smokers/hallucinogen eaters, and are on the same mental level as me. If you are one or know of any, send em my way. =D

 

There are good guys out here who have matured sufficiently so as to be nice and kind and faithful. Problem is by the time we reach that stage we're too old to date young idealists like yourself and too smart to date bitter, jaded women our own age...

 

if i where a nice guy, i wouldn't like a girl who complains about his dad in a forum.

 

Maybe the fact you can't find a nice guy says more about you than all the guys in the world.

If you want a nice guy/girl, be a nice person yourself, and be happy with yourself. Everything else will come.

 

Jimmy P hit the nail on the head. It's like what Ghandi said "be the change you want to see in the world". Would you go for a man that thought all women were vile creatures?

 

ditto Jimmy P and forwardventure

 

theres gotta be real girls out there who dont get moody over trivial things and who dont generalize all men, theres gotta be girls who understand that it is there own self fulfilling attitude that repels men, and theres gotta me girls out there who understand that SEX is what men and women come together for. your 17, and stupid, and no doubt a prude, I bet your hot friends are having a great time. Quit bitching.

 

wat i have found through the girls ive dated is jus wat jimmy said. sick begets sick, nice attracts nice etc... its jus sometimes hard to find that nice person if you yourself are nice in this world of ours. jus know that every type of person is out there somewhere in this world.

 

I am one girl who does like nice guys. I've met them! Usually they just want to be with the opposite type of person, which is why they don't want me

P.S. I'm 17 and NOT a prude, but to you, that would translate to "I'm a whore!"

 

good guys do exist, they're just not your type

 

Good answer.