I have a rejection fetish!

it's so weird. as i was coming onto my most recent girl (before we went out) i got all sorts of vibes she only liked me as a friend. and for some reason that triggered the wildest dreams (about her of course) and made me feel really, really amazing 24/7. everytime i talked to her, everytime we hung out as friends... etc etc.

after i found out how she really felt about me, it all kind of died. we went out for a few months but i figured the excitement altogether just died for me. so we mutually went separate ways relationship wise and nonw we're just friends.

and here i am, the dreams are back... the feelings i never really knew still existed... all of it. i don't even want her back, i just like it the way it is. is this fucked up?

 

i dont know, thats hard for me to understand. I hate being rejected. But when i was rejected by my ex boyfriend of two years, it kind of made me want him more because i couldnt have him type thing.. maybe thats what ur going thru

 

That's not rejection.

It's just the way she goes. As Motorhead say "The chase is better than the catch".

 

i have a phobia of rejection + a tendency of telling the truth = not good for getting laid.

 

maybe you just like the chase... girls that play hard to get type thing.. but ... how will you ever be in a relationship if you dont like it when they like you

 

i agree..

 

I'm the same way, and for this reason I stay single. After 1-2 months into a relationship, I actually get disgusted by a guys affection, to the point of cringing when he touches or kisses me, no matter how much I wanted that initially. I'm still looking for an answer to this shit...

 

You like what you can't have. Very common.