I've always been self-concious because mine is really small ): I'd like to pretend I'm a good girl and that's why I haven't had a lot of sexual partners, but a big part of it is I am so self-concious about it.
Wanna trade? lol Nah...small is good too! What exactly are you afraid of? That a guy will turn you down, or just make a comment? Because I highly doubt a guy would EVER turn down sex because your labia were small, and if a guy comments, either shrug it off, or turn HIM down. Love what ya got!
I feel like my inner and outer labia is huge. It's not, but it feels like I have so much junk in my panties.
wow, glad to hear all of this... this is not precisely a topic that would pop up at a casual conversation with friends.. actually, i never admitted being conscious ab mine to any of my boyfriends, no matter how close we were... so, i didnt know there are other women being conscious ab it, too! actually, i remember when mine started changing its shape in my teens, i thought something terrible is happening with me, i thought it "broke" or something... )
lol..me too quantum! I noticed the change after I had sex for the first time, and I thought that was what caused it. Kind of like I was being punished for the deed. lol Then I went through a period of time where I thought maybe I was a hermaphrodite...even more lol. But then I started researching online and discovered just how much the appearance of labia varies from woman to woman, and ever since that discovery I've been cool with my "junk". I wonder if it has something to do with hormones, seeing how ours morphed during our teens? Hey KC and Bella, or anyone else for that matter who feels like having an open chat about it, though your labia didn't become long, did the appearance of your labia change noticeably during your teens too?
first of all, lol a that link. second, i certainly hope they dont put that sort of thing in teeny mags haha. i have big flaps too and mine are completely different sizes. i used to hate them, but ive come to terms with it and really dont care now. also, they totally dont get in the way. i never feel or notice them when im walking without undies on, or biking, or horsebackriding. one sticks out a bit b/c my outer labia arnt very big but its not uncomfortable.
My outer labia are larger so my inner labia doesn't show. I never even really thought about it though and I'm glad that I never had any reason to care. The only part of my body that bothers me is my breasts.
Everyone I've ever been with has always said I have a pretty pussy. Im a red head so I have very fair skin and my wife says that its "hot pink" haha but I agree with tree-hugger I wish I could get my tits lifted.
there was no internet when i was in my teens hm, wow, it's really much easier being young and intimidated teen nowadays, isnt it? ah, bless the internet a lot of our features develop in our teens under the influence of hormones - breasts, lips... and so does the shape of our labia, apparently...
