I am going to be attending a Halloween party tomorrow night. A girl I am rather interested in will be hosting it. We were hanging out tonight with friends, and there was a definite tension between us, at least in my eyes. I always flirt with her as I do with all of my female friends, but she was really flirting back. We both had a couple of beers in us, but she was being very open with me about things, and told me at one point that I should wear nothing but a kilt to her party, and she wanted to fuck me all night. I don't know if she was being serious or not, but I would really like to see that happen, as well as have a reltionship with her if possible. I am presented with several options: 1) Go to the party in my planned attire(dressing up with friends as the Blues Brothers), and just see what happens with her, making no direct mention of my wants unless she says something; 2) Go to the party in my planned attire and try to get with her and see what happens; or 3) Wear nothing but a kilt and see what happens. I am very tempted to show up like she said she wanted me too, and just see if it works, but I am not really the type to be so forward with my ambitions. I don't want to fuck up the friendship we have with a stupid stunt like directy looking like I am trying to get laid, but I am willing to make an even go of trying to be with her, and maybe sacrificing our friendship if the relationship doesn't work out. Do you guys think she really wants me, or what? I know I haven't put many details in about how she acts toward me, but she makes casual mention sometimes of wanting me sexually and/or romantically. I know that she used to want to date me, but she ended up dating my best friend and then they broke up because he got back with his ex. He is okay with me dating her if that happens, and several of her friends have said go for it, but they haven't expressly said she was interested in me. Just looking for input.
Well, with the kilt idea, she'll either jump your bones the second she sees you, or you'll look like a total ass. I say strike a happy median as a Blues Brother with tear away pants.
lol, I wonder if I can get some tux pants modified with velcro on this short notice...I might just take ity with me in the car in case the situation comes to hand.
even if she was only kidding with the kilt thing... you can just laugh and shrug it off... if you don't act embarrassed then it'll be cool. and hey, if she wasn't kidding...
Tough call --- If I had said something like that & the dude actually showed up in nothing but a kilt --- it would definitely increase any interest already there... On the other hand... Blowing off your fellow Blues Brothers may be a bit tacky - especially over a girl you're not yet with... Then there's this---- Take the Blues Brothers costume with you --- but show up in only a kilt... Happy medium??? I'm not dressing up as anything but myself. That's strange enough on a day to day basis for everyone involved! Gina.
Blowing off the brothers ain't a problem, they were the ones who suggested actually showing up in a kilt...
you mentioned you guys were drinking when this came up. Does she remember or has she mentioned it since? Why haven't you hooked up now that she's single? I would advise you normally to throw caution to the wind and show up in the kilt, but because you told your friends I would hate to see you show up and her turn you down in front of them. I imagine that if she really wants to hook up with you, she will no matter what you're wearing! If she asks why you DIDN'T show up in a kilt, the fact that you weren't sure if she was serious isn't going to offend her. If it does, well then, she's wierd.
