i started dating this guy last may. it became super emotional way fast. and i really didn't mind, until about 4 months into it..or so. i found text messages to his daughters mother. they were very sexual and very graphic. he said he was joking around and i never saw what her replies to the messages were. (yes, i'm that naive!) and honestly i wanted to believe him. the thing is it's been 6 months. (and a few stupid lies here and there) and i still can't trust him. whats worse is we moved in together and i can't stand being near his baby mama. i feel as if she's laughing at me. we spend all of our time together and i still don't trust him. i was never like this and i can't stand being "that girl." how do i regain trust? why am i holding on to that situation?
To be truthful, you may never find that same amount of trust as before. Just let him know how you feel, first step is to talk about it.
What do you mean you moved in together, and you can't stand being near his baby's mama? You all live together.. as in you, your bf and his ex with their baby? I'm sorry, it's not clear to me. And this "we spend all of our time together", you mean you all hang out together as one big happy family? I'm so sorry.. or am I just over thinking here.
I think a better question here is why on earth would you move in with someone who was probably cheating on you? Of course you feel like shit around his babies mama, your probably the second choice.
