Would you be irritated with your mom if

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bella Désordre, Mar 2, 2009.

  1. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    That's my guilt Laura, is that this mom has been a single mom and the daughter feels bad. But, also the daughter has a family now has to worry about herself. it's just a sucky situation. I think the daughter is very resentful for being put in it.
     
  2. bluesafire

    bluesafire Senior Member

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    daughter needs to grow some balls.
     
  3. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    that could be bad for the marriage... :ack2:
     
  4. RELAYER

    RELAYER mādhyamaka

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    I lol'd
     
  5. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    Do you mean to mail it or to stand up to her mom? Either way, your advice is appreciatted as this daughter has a very hard time understanding her mom and how she can be so sympathetic to the numerous women she counsels, but still ask her daughter to risk her ass and potantialy go to jail.
    The daughter really wants to tell her mom she thinks she's not being a very good mom at all.
     
  6. bluesafire

    bluesafire Senior Member

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    or good. ;)
     
  7. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    I'd freak out if my mom even asked for pot.
     
  8. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    but honestly, i don't think there's a lot of risk involved as long as you overnight with no return address and are sending TO california... the only risk is really on her end. but if it makes you feel uncomfortable she should respect that and there's definitely no need for you to feel guilty about it. just do what feels right to you, learn the facts and then go with your gut.
     
  9. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    The daughter also wonders if she's just being a pussy.
     
  10. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    well, it's certainly a possibility ;)

    not that i don't sympathize.
     
  11. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    That's the thing, is she's making her uncomftrable.. Buying it from a dealer makes her feel uncomftrable too, so she just goes without when the weather's too bad to drive into CA to get it. She is so careful in covering her ass, ya know? She also knows that if her mom got caught she wouldn't be able to have a happy life.
    It's just being put in the situation that makes her feel like shit and like her mom daoesn't value her or her peace of mind.
    This chick is also bat shit crazy with severe anxiety issues ;). Her mom knows this and knows mailing it contributes to it significantly.
     
  12. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    :D ,that wasn't the answer I had in the script for you to say to make me feel better, but it was funny.
     
  13. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    This is teh longest the daughter's ever talked to her mom and she wonders if she's okay. She's feeling really guilty now.
     
  14. RELAYER

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    I would be more than annoyed. Id be like "why you in my grill you ho?" and then punch her lights out
     
  15. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    don't feel guilty. really, your mom should grow some balls and get her own weed. if she wants it, she should suck it up and get her prescription and not put it all on you. you really shouldn't feel guilty because this isn't about you. it's about her and she's pulling you into it. it's codependent behavior and it's not fair to you, look what it's doing to you.. you shouldn't have to stress over this :(
     
  16. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    Thank you :). That's pretty much what Andy says too and he's pretty rationale. I am going to take both of your guy's advice and stop stressing over it. It's not her responsibility to keep her mom supplied with pot, especially when she can get her own script.
    Zilla, one more question. How do you stay so thin when you eat string cheese? Are you blessed or do you work out?
     
  17. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    aww haha well.. i used to work out hardcore in high school, ran 3-5 miles every weekday. so i built a lot of muscle that way which keeps my metabolism high.

    now i just bike and jog occasionally, also i live on the 3rd floor and walk whenever i can and lift weights so it keeps me in shape. i'm also addicted to spicy food which i hear speeds up your metabolism. and i don't really ever eat dessert, i prefer beer. which is my weakness :eek:
     
  18. Shortbus

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    exactly what I was going to say
     
  19. RELAYER

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    Yea right, just trying to rub off my genius eh? I see what you did there
     
  20. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    All you no dessert people always look so good. My BFF is like that too. She eats everything but sugar and looks fantastic. I eat a lot of sugar and hate when things reinforce that's why I'm not in good shape anymore.
     

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