How do you know?

People tend to mirror each other's body language when attracted to each other

(Good old Cosmo!)

 

if he drops hints towards sex maybe he's not being rude about it but look for that any type of touchy feely type thing big thing notice to see if he's asking questions about u or another gurl for women that's probaly hard but we will ask a girl that we see just as a friend for advice or do they do this do they do that but if the quesions goes towards u and u no of no other women then probaly he's after u but know that alot of men are just after ass nothing more good luck

 

So he just did it again. He called me and we were talking and he was asking me what I was doing for the rest of the day, so I told him and that was cool, we had a good chat. But then I asked him if he wanted to come to a party with me tomorrow and he said no. I don't understand him - he is so interested in every other part of my life...and during the day or when we are together we get along so well and spend alot of time together...but he just never seems to want to socialise with me and my other friends. Sometimes if it is mutual friends he comes along, but not always.

Men!

 

post a picture of yourself and i will tell you right away if hes interested or not.

 

do you have a heart beat?

there you go thats it, he interested.

 

So what your saying is that he would only be interested if I was attractive?

 

Look, if he is hanging around and talking with you and playing with you he is interested. What he needs is a sign - any sign - that you are serious on him. I mean, we men aren't mind readers. We throw out the bait but unless somthing bites we will move on.

What do you want him to do? Ask you to marry him? Respond, say he's nice and attractive and sexy and he will go further. And, as you respond in kind, you will eventually get to that place that lovers get to.

Forget about your other friends for now, he's not interested in them. He is interested in you. Men are like that, we are single-tracked. Other people are distracting when a relationship is starting. Bringing other friends in will derail things until you become seriously attached.

Mark from Australia

 

you'll know

 

yes thtas exactly what i mean, i never hit onn girls that i dont find attractive....no guys do.

 

honey all men are interested if they are willing to be your friend then they are definetly interested.

 

Don't ever feel you're not in someone's league. Girl, he's not in YOUR league. But, to answer your question, I think one of the main signs a guy is interested is that he will build himself up in his stories....so if they are bragging they are interested.

 

if he declined your offer than I would not return his calls for a few days and say you were busy.

 

Ok, so judging by your advice and replies it seems that this guy really could be interested in me!!

I suppose now I have to let him know that I am interested.

I think this whole situation has two possibilities:

1. He likes me, but is waiting for me to give him some kind of sign that I am interested; or

2. He has figured out that I like him and he is teasing me!

Fingers crossed its number one eh?

If nothing else I have found a good friend, we really do get along well!

 

So, do you reckon that if a guy starts talking to you about his sex life, or lack thereof, and asking you about how to approach a women he is interested in that you have reached friend status, or is it more likely that they are asking you these questions as away to gauge how you feel about them?

I tried to tell you people that I was the most clueless women out there!