Girl Troubles (please help)

I see the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with and she is a good friend, when I asked her to go with the dance with me she said yes, but she got in trouble and was grounded fro two weeks.

I eventually got the courage to ask her to go out with me again and I got a no.

I just cant figure out whats changed.

 

More info?

 

Yeah dude, we need more info...maybe she wasn't grounded and just tryna ditch you? :\

 

what age are you and what era are you living in?!

 

If you got a yes from the first time and she got grounded cause of it – she might have said no the second time round because she’s scared of getting in trouble again.

I’m guessing the dance was at night, and she isn’t allow out at night ? Ask her if she would like to hang out sometime – during day light hours…… and do something fun and unique together. Telling her you want to spend the rest of your life together on the first date can be daunting thing for many girls – so take it slow and hint to her your interested in a long term thing with her every now and then, and see how she takes it.

Keep us updated and good luck.

 

that was my first instinct too

 

I'm 15 shes 15. This era I'm sure
She was grounded I called and asked her parents
She got grounded because she left food cooking in the oven I was on the phone when her dad screamed at her. So i dont think she was trying to ditch me

 

Im sure she knows im interested in her.
She has to be picked up from school ok.
So i asked straight out right before she left if she would go out with me about 5 days ago. U know be my girlfriend.
She said maybe & said she'd tell me that night. That night she told me no. I'm still feel like im in love with her.
Me and her still friends maybe a little bit more disstant and to me thats the worst part.
I really want a way that I can get her to at least go on a real date with me.

 

Her pic is in my album

 

Give her space. If you chase her you'll chase her away. Just give her some time, she may come around. But if not, enjoy her friendship. If you really love her you'll want her to be happy, even if it's not with you.

 

you sound a little deluded. I don't think you're 'in love'.

 

i'm sayin don't obsess over one person if they don't want to be with you there are billions of people on the earth you could be with.

 

There are at least 250 girls at my school and I see most of them during the day to me Brook is better than them all. She is the only one that makes me feel this way. Until I meet her I could care less about girls. I still think she is the only one for me.

 

I really dont want to feel obsessive but I cant really help it

 

I feel bad she said no but,

I cant feel bad about losing a maybe but I feel bad about losing what was already there

 

are you drunk?

 

you don't look a day over twelve, MAYBE thirteen... i HIGHLY doubt you are going to spend your life with the brooke girl, i'm guessing you're in middle school, once you go to high school you probably wont even talk to her anymore.

 

I'm in high school
u cant tell from my pics but Im about 6'2" tall, no one could mistake me for a 12 or 13 year old.
I dont drink either.

 

I talked to her for about 3 hours last night on the phone
The little pinch in our friendship was fixed.
We even joked a little bit about her saying no.
I brought it up 2 or 3 times and she asked if Ill ever let it go I said no a little bit louder than needed but we both laughed and I really think everything is fixed, at least for now

 

I know how you feel, I was once in your shoes, but trust me. I too once felt like this one girl in high school was the only one for me, we never went out, now I'm in college dating someone else, and now i feel like she's the only one for me. So, although you may very well be love, keep your head up and remember its not the end of the world.