Here's the situation I am an 18 yr old male and I'm a Virgin. I been talking to this girl for a few months and we are about to make it official. She is a virgin too and she knows that I am. She is 16 yrs old and has told me she is not ready to lose her virginity just yet though. Now here is the twist, I know this other girl that I have made out a couple of times with in the past (before I met the new girl) That I'll call Wendy. Well a buddy of mine (who's closer to her) says that I can hook up with her sometime soon at a private party just of just 4 (Him with his girl. And me with Wendy)(Wendy and his girl are best friends). So here's the problem, I've always wanted to hook up with Wendy but I seriously do not see a future between us except being fuck buddy's. And I really truly like the new girl and I see us going somewhere even though we're technically not together yet. So yeah, I want to lose my virginity already but I don't want to have to tell the new girl that I lost it cause she knows I am a virgin. So what are you guy's thoughts on the situation?
Sounds like you should wait. Out of respect for both of these girls. No girl is really okay w/ just being a "fuckbuddy" it's very derogatory and detrimental to a girl's self image. Even if she seems open to doing something like that you should probably be the stronger person and abstain. If you have already told this other girl that you are a virgin, it would probably be a good idea to remain so. If you truly like her you should be willing to wait until you know if your relationship w/ her is headed anywhere before you just run out and lose your virginity just because you want to. If you went ahead & had sex w/ someone else /continued playing it off that you were a virgin your relationship would be founded on lies... and if you did tell her you slept w/ someone else you would totally damage the good ol' trust factor. Perhaps neither one of these girls is the right choice for you? Sounds like you want someone you would like to pursue a meaningful/physical relationship with... you might be able to make that happen w/ the new girl if you keep your virginity in check (for the moment at least)
LOL. You are 18, and she's 16. There's a lot of 16 year old female virgins, believe it or not! From my experience growing up most girls lose it between 15-17. So this virgin girl you're seeing, you won't have to wait that long, 6 months max. Don't lay down like that and fuck a whore, you can always do that. Stick with the virgin.
You're an idiot for even asking what to do, this should have been obvious.. maybe you shouldn't go for either of them because you don't seem to know what you want.
