We stay together + I get to smoke, as long as I'm not baked when we have plans. Win win? Yes yes. That was one of my main problems with it anyways.. just the fact that I didn't even have the choice to smoke is what really pissed me off. Heeellll yeaaaah.
A good friend of mine once gave me the best advice in life. Once in a relationship, as a man, never end it yourself, make her end it.
I have to disagree with Maximus, you should break up with her. Maybe you can go for a walk and when you're somewhere kinda private i dunno you can break the news or something. Good luck!
Invite her to your place, light up a fat blunt, talk about how you're taking the next two years out of school to travel the world, "find yourself", and score as many foreign notches on your belt as possible. If anything will end it, that will.
if you don't wanna be with her don't make her think you wanna be with her haha, dump the chick. if she wants to stay in pa forever she must be boring, it's a big state but unless you're in philly it's not exciting... at all. and you're in highschool you have soo long to meet new people! especially ones that will want to travel and smoke some ganj.
when i was in high school my girlfriend of a year and i broke up in a text message fight. it was so pathetic. i'd say anything you do is better than that... haha
I think it might be just a tad unfair to classify a person as 'boring' on the sole fact she doesn't want to travel. I mean, a little bit of understanding of people's differing interests is in order here. But I agree... the way I have done it in the past is just make plans to 'hang out', nothing real definate, and when you get to her house you sit her down and give her the news. It's really not hard.
Be blunt too. Pull out the joint, prove the point that this means more to you than she does. Unless it doesn't.
I honestly think you should break up with her, or at least talk about it. 1-you're in highschool, which means everything is deceivingly nothing and 2-it sounds like you don't really like her. The length of the relationship probably wont matter that much, you'll both move on sooner or later... I'd rather be single than with someone I don't want to be with. Or, simply get over yourself, quit pot or settle for the agreement.