Ok. First off I am 43 almost 44. My soon to be wife (4 weeks now) is 29 almost 30. I am in love. The thing is I want sex all the time. She wants sex all the time. She tells me she could have sex with me several times a day if it were possible (for me that is). My problem, I am never in the mood for sex. NEVER. We have sex about 5+ times a week. I think about sex all the time, but just not with her. Not with anyone else. I do not believe in cheating EVER. I do not stray and I am devoted to her. Sometimes it seems to be to much effort. Any advise? I do consider myself a lucky man to have a woman that not only loves me, but want to have this much sex with me.. 2 years and still going strong with both our sex drives. Just to point out, I work 40+ hours a week, I own 2 other buisnesses, I work in a semi-professional band, and I am 50% time caretaker of my 3 teenage children. Stress? Tons!! Health? - 20 pounds overweight (starting to take care of this tonight) HELP!! Advice.
I'm sorry - explain that again. You want sex all the time but are never in the mood? You think about sex all the time but not with her and not with anyone else - I am confused.
I am confused myself. I do think about sex all the time. I just don't understand it. That is why i am looking for some advice. I don't know. Could I just still be depressed or out of shape (I am an aging athlete)
I guess that is about right. Recently, I don't sleep much and my diet is awful and I do not exercise at all. I am thinking that these are the reasons, but I just don't know.
those could be reasons but remember sex tself is a work out and if u do it 5+ times in one week then u are getting a work out, unless you're lazy the whole time and she's doing all he work and being on top. i'd say try to spice it a little bit dude, do some things that you've not done before, try some new stuff maybe you'll be back into in your eart and your head. so if u don't think of any one person to have sex with including your soon to be significant other, then who are u thinking about fucking, yourself? i mean i'm 25 and have found myself constantly thinking about someone almost twice my age, but i can't help it he's way hot and my curiousity hasn't subsided in the past month or so that i've been talking to him so there's nothing left to do but relieve my curiousity and go see what kinda fun he can provide.
Hi I guess there's nothing better than sex. I would be happy if my wife would be so active. She don't want much sex with me. How different is the world. Tell your wife many greetings from me. Maybe she wants a little conversation with me. About Sex and ... . Of course only if you're employed. lg Benny
I don't sleep much and my diet is awful and I do not exercise at all. I'd say those things are your main problems, not sex.
Oh I totally think that may be my problem. I really think that my lack of being able to sleep and rest is the biggest issue I have. Well, we have been together for 2 years and she loves me, still wants me hourly and I am working on my sleep issues.
dude how did u manage 2 get a wife 14 yrs younger? think ill marry a 20yr old when im in my 50's. well kudos becuz your obviously a successful business man. my advice--um i guess take viagra
Right fricking on. He's junked out, he's overstressed and he's no spring chickie. Sex five times a week is obviously too much under the circumstances.
