We've been dating for 3 months and he is wonderful and I think that I love him. We are pretty much inseparable and never go a day without seeing each other. A couple weekends ago we went on a road trip to Crater Lake and some other places in Oregon and I think it was the best weekend of my life. He is totally different than my usual "type" is, especially looks wise. He is really into Death Metal and he is a black belt in Korean Karate. Our only problem right now is the fact that it hurts me a lot to have sex (some unnecessary information for everyone) There are some boring facts about my life, but hey, you asked!
Oh I am so happy. What is his name? Where did you meet? I understand the painful sex. Have you guys just started?
We started several weeks ago. My doctor warned me that it would hurt like a bitch though. Did it hurt for you at first and did it eventually go away? We met at a party and he said he just knew as soon as he saw me that he wanted to get to know me better. So he got my phone number from this other guy and asked me out. And pretty much the next day we were a couple. His name is Robert, but I like to call him by his middle name which is Anton.
I hate hearing about Christines boyfriend because it makes ME envious. I don't like him Christine, he sounds like bad news
Awww... thanks I never thought it would ever happen for me. But just as soon as I gave up all hope of ever having a boyfriend, one came along. I hear that is always the way it works How come you're not happy daytripper?
I want a boyfriend Christine, did your doctor say it hurts for everyone? Oh, and did you use lube your first time, cause I heard that makes it easier...
ahhh sounds sweet christine. Yah it gets a lot less painfull. After a year I didn't have any pain unless i wasn't turned on or unless I was tensed but he was small so I don't know.
lol, thanks George. I had to wait 20 years to get a boyfriend, so I've done my time of being alone and unhappy, you've got two more years Kate My doctor said that for me specifically it would hurt much more than for most people because I am extremely small. It sucks that that is great for the guy and bad for me
I hope it fades. I just am happy that my man is average and not extremely big. I would probably die if he was.
Shit! Do you have to go to the doctor to figure out if you're small or not? I think I'm small too....even tampons hurt too much!
well, you're having wonders with your bf. i'm the opposite. but that's okay. i'm already talking about this. i'm getting better. thanks for asking. love, lou.
tampons hurt for me too but when I went to the doctor pre-sex she said i was averaged sized and post sex she said my hymen wasn't breaking. When I went awhile ago to an obgyn as opposed to a GP he said that it seems like my hymen broke but I just tense up too much.