Ok when me and my fianc'ee are alone in the room, somtimes I put my hand down my trousers and play with myself just to tease her, I know she likes seeing it as she has told me before many times, I try and get her attention somtimes by doing this, and getting close to her, yet everytime I do this, she just ignores it and moves off etc (Keep in mind I have never done this and it go any further than a hard on...) Now somtimes she will do this out of the blue, and everytime I try and ignore it, it makes me jealous to see this and I have hinted this to her before, yet everytime she does this, she wont stop playing with herself unless I play with her, and if I stop she will start again. This pisses me off to no extent and I think it is demorilsing in a way, how many of you guys have noticed this before?
I may be wrong, but I think what Fetish is trying to say is why does his girlfriend ignore him when he touches himself, when she basically demands his attention when she does it.
meh, no reason to get pissed off, its probably just not a good opening move for her. Sure she may like to see it when she is already hot and bothered, but it isnt what she likes to see to get things started. The reverse is not true, I cant imagine a situation where a girl playing with herself would not excite her man enough to want to play with it as well. You know you want to play with it, so just go with it when she starts that way, and find a better opener for yourself.