What does falling in love feel like to you?

Discussion in 'True Love' started by spirit of the night, Jan 1, 2009.

  1. nextGENERATIONhippie

    nextGENERATIONhippie Member

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    Well, when im with my girl, i feel like all my problem and worries are miles away. And I feel like the apocalypse could be going on right out side the window and I wouldn't even notice/care because I'm with her.
     
  2. TransAmRocker

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    its something only a select few people truly feel
     
  3. McFuddy

    McFuddy Visitor

    It feels like the sentimental bullshit that this thread is filled with.
     
  4. KJ69

    KJ69 Visitor

    It feels like getting to know someone who has somehow known you for a long time. And it makes you wish that you had met them much sooner.
     
  5. LorettaYoungSilks

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    Hehe..

    But yeah, I would say falling in love is great for about 10 minutes, then the harsh reality you have fallen for a Nazi kicks in.

    But are those 10 glorious minutes worth it..? Yes, probably.
     
  6. Boogie_Boy

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    It's actually been YEARS since I fell in "love." I learned that it isn't real and I haven't fallen in love since. I met some girls who are just AMAZING looking and have great personalities and are very intelligent and I've lusted after them, but never once have I thought, "I want to spend the rest of my life with them." That's kinda silly, if you ask me. You cannot guarantee that you'll be with them forever. It can and will change, believe me.
     
  7. KJ69

    KJ69 Visitor

    No, it doesn't come with a guarantee. You have to put yourself out there and take a risk.
     
  8. caliente

    caliente Senior Member

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    I think love is something you do ... it's not something that happens to you. Love is where your partner's happiness is as important to you as your own.

    And as KJ said ... there are no guarantees. You have to be willing to open your heart and let your partner in. You have to be willing to trust your partner completely. You have to be willing to compromise and discuss things that come up so that you can deal with them and put them behind you.

    And as my grandmother used to say, don't ever love anyone who hasn't suffered a little. Wait until you've seen how they react when things aren't going right. Anybody can be nice when things are going well ... it takes a lot of character to be nice when things are falling apart all around you.
     
  9. snipr

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    honestly, iv been in "love" so many times that its hurt me so bad that i just plain dont believe in it anymore, and my emotions are kind of null and void on that topic... its just a friendship with a little more...
     
  10. Shizzle

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    awwwwwwwwwwww love is the bestest, such a beautyful feeling
     
  11. missedit

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    Lmao you're my hero, thats got to be the wisest and greatest thing I've heard in a loooong ass time. Rock on!!

    And about love, meh it depends love is great it's the idea or marriage that's scary as shit lol. peace
     
  12. undefeated

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    falling in love is the easy part--forgetting the girl and picking yourself back up is hard
     
  13. Dylanchick0113

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    I thought i was in love a few times but now that I'm a bit older I know better. I have this feeling mow for the man
    im with that I've never had before. It's an incredible feeling to know that even though we're from different countries ,different backgrounds, even different 1st languuages that you can connect with someone on a level thats truly amazing. especially to have someone step in and care about not only you, but everything you're about and your children as well is a truly amazing thing.
     
  14. deleted

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    my nuts tingle..
     
  15. Tsukiko_777

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    It's being completely perplexed and beduddled on how you ever got on without them :love:
     
  16. JoeyPB

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    Like a potential mistake.
     
  17. Aine6923

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    When you're in love, you have nothing but respect and care for the person. You're entire life revolves around them. Then when the illusion is shattered, you still can't forget about them and defend them from everything and everyone, etc etc... it's a constant, almost annoying, feeling that drags on and on and never goes away.
     
  18. NotDeadYet

    NotDeadYet Not even close.

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    The rush that you get early in a relationship, when they seem perfect to you, I consider that lust and infatuation. Later on, when you realize that the person has flaws like everybody else, but you still want to be with them all the time, that is love.
     
  19. Greengirl

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    well i feel a constant need to be close physically to this person. i feel instant urge to smile when i see him. it just comes from withing. Like something is tickling my guts, making me feel shivers thought my body. U are ready to do almost everything to make this person happy, to make him satisfied to make him feel maximum good.
    Things like that.
     
  20. tomboy_chick

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    well, that's an interesting pic!!! ^^^

    i thought i was in love a year ago. but then we went on a trip to hawaii together and i realized i wasn't ... lol

    next time a guy says he loves me, i'm gonna say ... "take me on a trip first."
     

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