okay I'M new here but had a question. When your girl rides your face do you focus on just the clitoris or the vagina. Ladies how do you all like it?
Cueball, let me apologize for the brasher stupidos of the group. They prolly made such fools of themselves that they'll be making fun of anyone asking questions just to feel better about their whimpy selves (which exists under cover of bravado and machismo!) You asked a good question, there is no correct answer. I have been with women who wouldn't let me near their clit, it was so tender. They got off from the surrounding area (remember the clitoris really curves down and around the entire vaginal area - what we think of as clit is only the tip of the proverbial iceberg.) Other women have guided my head straight to the top of the vag. Best answer: ask her. "Hey where do you wantmy tongue, or shall I explore for a while. It is even ok to ask her to pull apart the lips so you can really go deep. Don't forget, you have two hands: one for her 'G'spot and one for her ass (or better yet, her asshole - if she'll let you!) Good luck. It is the most wonderul trip in the world, filled with joy, happiness, and clenched thighs!
Sure that's it. No really, judging by the questions, answers and comments I've seen here, this would last place I'd go looking for any real advice. There are excellent resources, including other forums out there for people who seriously want to know how to improve their sex lives. This place comes off as lark to me. Seriously, man just look around. "Do you whack off at work?" Ha ha. But kudos to you for helping out this fellow. 90% of the time, that is the best answer.
Yeah, JoeBone, the joint used to rock with shared wisdom, photos, experiences, and surprisingly adult conversation. A few real hookers, couple of convicts, and professional folk out for an evening's enjoyment - all good. It has changed and I don't know why, except sucess usually ruins everything. Now it swarms with macho, intimidation, strong and protected viewpoints. Absolutely contrary to old fashion hippy values. I don't mind the kids asking real questions, but lottsa kids looking for a cheap thrill or spot on coarse rub at innocense. The only reason I stick around is to set the droobs right and try to cancel out the ridicule. Glad you're aboard. Stick around and let's try to revert!
Yeah, you'll know when you're doing something right by the pressure on your ears. My wife nearly crushed my head between her thighs some times. Also, the rest of Fastswitch's advice seemed appropriate. Ppl are different and what works one time won't the next. The fun is the journey, the goal should just happen somewhere along it. And a little talk is good. I remember from 40 years ago, Peggy saying "Suck it Shale, suck it." Her subtle way of saying quit with the tongue and kiss that little nub. Sex is great. You learn as you go and have fun of one degree or another along the way.